Need to Worship

So the last time I wrote about my personal journey I had rediscovered my submission completely by accident and had one of my best days in a long time, only to realize that since I had no one to submit to right away I was in a conundrum. It’s not quite like I am single and have no one around to submit to, I have a husband that would like to be my Dom again someday but isn’t ready to take on the responsibility of having me as his submissive again yet. So that new joyous feeling of finding my submission is fraught with anxiety and frustration.

KM and I had a talk and he listened to my concerns and while he’s not ready for me to submit to him again he understands where I am and that while he’s not ready to accept me we can’t change what has happened in me.

I’m not to pressure him into being dominant and if I am acting submissive it comes with the caveat that he’s not likely to reciprocate right now. I’m struggling. There’s so much I want to do, to offer and to be obedient when called upon it and there’s nothing I can do about it.

Good news is that KM does want me to submit to him again, at some point in the future. Bad news, he has no clue when he’ll be ready for that to happen. Until that moment submissive moments are of my own making and without any assistance from him. It’s not quite like submitting in a vacuum because he can detect when I’m submissive and sometimes will allow me to feed that impulse in whatever way I can.

Like today. I’ve felt so submissive today and strangely enamored with KM’s feet. Feet have never been something interesting to me, but today all I wanted to do was shower them with love, worship them, kiss them, caress them and be near them. I asked KM if it was okay and he said it was fine. While I was worshiping his feet he even smiled and made appreciative sounds. It helped a lot and made me feel good about myself and who I was at that moment. Honored to be at his feet.

I wrote a status update here today as well, “You ever get days that the submissive mindset is just so deep that everything you think of and do you almost vibrate internally? It just feels like I’m going to overflow anyway. I can’t explain it.” I still feel that way and while it does pain me, I hope that feeling sticks around because it feels like the real me, the “me” that’s been hiding and chained for so long.

I have so much to work on besides my submission and I’m doing so but that progress is slow, like watching ice melt in the winter.

Now, there are lovely moments going on in our relationship. He’s more playful and interested in sexy stuff. We are happy more often and arguing less. I really do feel like our relationship is better than it was just months ago. I feel it will continue as long as I keep working on a better me.

I’m embracing my sexuality more and more with the help of my slut training that I’m currently doing on my own. I’m exploring casual sex outside of our marriage and may have found at least one fuck buddy to do that with. I’m enjoying how sexually stimulated I am and how desirable I feel. All the time.

Here’s to progress and internal work.

About lunaKM

I’m a full-time submissive in a D/s relationship. I am webslut to My Personal Blog, The Iron Gate, Submissive Guide, Submissive Journal Prompts, and help my Master KnyghtMare with Kink Network Sites. I started blogging when I was exploring D/s online in 2003. I needed advice, mentors and helping hands. Since then I’ve made it my mission to help novice submissives understand themselves and the services they wish to provide. Read more >>
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