lunaKM
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Cleaning Up The Place
I’m still getting comfortable in my new domain. I’ve tried to think of ways that I can make this more than a blog, since it is my name site it can be anything that has to do with me, right? Maybe Master will allow me to put up picture galleries of naughty and fun pictures [...]
Service Without Restrictions
One of the big things I’m to work on with our new start is my setting restrictions on my service. Most of these are in the form of ‘I don’t feel like it, or I don’t want to’ but I know I’m also likely to put things off and that restricts my service too. I [...]
Feeling Sexy and Serving
We had a pretty good munch today. A class on Spanking and Impact play went really well I think. Master was nervous as always. He gets sweaty palms, it’s so cute. I love his little nerves. He’s so smart and knows what he needs to know. I know that with every class he gets more [...]
Please Vote in My Poll!
I have a poll on Submissive Guide that I’d love everyone’s input on. Please come on over and let me know what training you would like to see on Submissive Guide. Thanks!
Slave Training #7: Obedience I, first steps toward mindfulness
This lesson is about obedience. Reading the lesson there are a few exercises to do throughout the week. The one is to begin practicing mediation. Here’s the description: Sit comfortably with your spine straight. You may choose to sit in a chair or cross-legged on teh floor, as long as you can maintain the position [...]
20 Macaroons
On Saturday, good friends of ours came up to visit us. Sir Areli and her girl Ayun spent most of Saturday in our company, dinner and evening-late night fun. We completely enjoy spending time with them because we can be normal and relaxed and ourselves. I had a great time fixing dinner and talking about [...]
Retraining
So as I go about looking through my rules again, and realize that I’ve been really lazy with my training I just can’t believe that Master has been so patient with me about it. I guess I just figured he’d get on my case about it sooner than now. He has to be noticing that [...]
Slave Training Lesson #6: Expectations, The Contract
This lesson is all about writing a training contract between you and your trainer. Since I am doing this alone, the book suggests writing a plan of action or purpose statement. I don’t intend to make it fancy or anything. In fact, I have an idea for a basic one. I, lunaKM, pledge to carry [...]
More In-Depth Thoughts
A few days ago, Master commented about my blog and it’s lack of quality writing, “I preferred it, personally, when I could read your more in-depth thoughts.” Exactly what I was thinking was missing too, and honestly I hadn’t noticed was missing until he pointed it out. I couldn’t think for the life of me [...]
The Submissive Guide
If you have been following my twitter you know already. I’ve started a new web project that I hope will be a wonderful help for submissives everywhere. It’s called Submissive Guide and is set up as a place for self-paced learning, mentorship and training. I’ve just started it, but I’m sure that I’ll have lots [...]
Best of 2008
It is New Years Eve so I wanted to take a moment to wish you all a Happy New Year. Thanks for your readership in 2008 – I’ve really enjoyed continuing to grow as a submissive and sharing my journey here has been fulfilling. As we move into 2009 I thought it might be fun [...]
Slave Training Lesson #5: Assessing Risk: Your Relationships, Work and Health
In this lesson I get to learn all about the risks I bring with me into the training program. These are all a part or growth and development. First, relationships… Rate your responses to the following statements. Use a scale of 1-10 where 1 means ‘never’ or ‘absolutely not’ and 10 means ‘always’ or most [...]
Saying No
Saying no. This is a difficult essay for me. I assume you wanted me to write about when I say no to sexual things. A lot of the time when I say no, it has reason behind it. The rest of the time, I realize it is excuses. How I feel about saying no is [...]
Slave Training Lesson #4: Self-Reflective Impulses
The following exercise is to help develop a self-reflective mindset. Write whatever comes to mind first, answers are not carved in stone, and will be analzyed later in training. For now just write. Exercise: Complete the following sentences. I imagine myself as a slave being able to…serve Master completely and peacefully with my heart and [...]
Lesson 3: Strengths and Weaknesses
Miss Abernathy’s Slave Training Lesson 3 Exercise: List 5 things you do very well. Cooking Planning Type Learn new things quickly Kiss List 5 things you don’t now how to do, but would like to learn. Canning Sewing Prostate massage Formal beverage service Recycling List 5 things you are embarrassed about not being able to [...]
Patience and Study
Favorite Quote: “A slave’s life is mostly composed of patience and study. Yes, study. If not with actual books, then following the example of greater, senior slaves. Or learning every nuance of their owner’s character, so that they can more completely and seamlessly offer themselves at the right time and in the right manner.” Laura [...]
Lesson 2: What kind of slave am I?
Training with Miss Abernathy, Lesson 2 Reading lesson to helps me figure out where my current abilities and talents would take me in slavehood. The exercise was a quiz of sorts Exercise: Imagine you are a live-in slave, serving your ideal dominant. What would your life be like? You can do a Quiz Farm type [...]
Training With Miss Abernathy and Lesson 1: What is a slave?
One of the books I got from kaya was the Erotic Slavehood book. It is two of Miss Abernathy’s books put together. One of them is Training with Miss Abernathy: a workbook for erotic slaves ans their owners. It’s meant to take at least a year to go through all of the lessons. According to [...]
Returning to Strict
Master has begun to return to the strict man I know him to be. He told me last night during dinner that he’s been lenient since we moved in August. Now he is returning to how he prefers to be. I’m silently giddy that he will be correcting me frequently, tightening the reins and perhaps [...]
The Idea of Structured Responses
Going along with added training ideas like the submissive positions, i have always found it fascinating when submissives or slaves have structured responses. I’ve only ever read about them, but I’m sure people use them to some extent. Examples are: “As Master wishes” or “Only if Master wishes” to indicate a yes or no response [...]
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