By lunaKM on August 18, 2009
People on Fetlife are judging me without even knowing me. Okay so I’ve not had 20 years of BDSM experience but the viewpoints and opinions I do have can help people. The people say that since I don’t have a degree in therapy or haven’t yet had classes in lifecoaching that I shouldn’t try to [...]
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By lunaKM on June 3, 2009
This week is going by relatively fast. I worked really hard on Submissive Guide yesterday and today I need to do a bit of housework. Master and I have been working through a few things as far as our dynamic goes. As I mentioned before, Master wants to be more consistent in his enforcement of [...]
Posted in Life | Tagged bdsm, Behavior, class, housework, journey, learning, Life, love, struggle, Submission, submissive guide, work |
By lunaKM on May 30, 2009
We had a pretty good munch today. A class on Spanking and Impact play went really well I think. Master was nervous as always. He gets sweaty palms, it’s so cute. I love his little nerves. He’s so smart and knows what he needs to know. I know that with every class he gets more [...]
Posted in Submission | Tagged attitude, class, Just Sex, love, munch, play, slavery, Submission, submissive guide, Training, work |
By lunaKM on May 25, 2009
Master and I have spent most of the weekend doing our own thing. I don’t think it’s a sign of any separation, just that since we are around each other 24/7 that this is our private time. Perhaps? I’m feeling down this weekend. I want to visit my grandmother’s grave. I haven’t done so since [...]
Posted in Lifestream | Tagged submissive guide, work |
By lunaKM on May 15, 2009
I’m hungry. It’s been quite a while since Master and I played more than just a little bondage or pain during sex. I am really craving an intense session. Master is more than willing to comply so I’m sure that it will be in my near future. The fantasy that I wrote about last week [...]
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By lunaKM on April 20, 2009
I’m looking for a certified massage therapist to write 6 posts on Submissive Guide. This is a paid guest posting. Please contact me if you are interested!
Posted in Lifestream | Tagged submissive guide |
By lunaKM on April 13, 2009
Today was a pretty darned good day! I got a lot of cleaning done in the morning, spent a lazy afternoon reading a book and then Master and I went to Wally-world to get hair color for me! I’m now a burgundy brunette. It’s gorgeous sexy on me. Master loves it, I love it. Right [...]
Posted in Just Sex, Life, Submission | Tagged bdsm, blow job, collar, Just Sex, kinky, learning, love, play, submissive guide |
By lunaKM on April 11, 2009
Today Master and I spent the day doing our own thing. I worked on Submissive Guide a bit, putzed on the internet, watched movies and he went into the bedroom to read a book, play Eve-Online and generally both of us were lazy. It was great. I’m always amazed at these days when we can [...]
Posted in Role Dynamics | Tagged Life, love, play, Submission, submissive guide, work |
By lunaKM on April 2, 2009
Not just the same ole’ diet I’ve been trying for years; that’s getting boring and while I do intend to lose weight and work hard at exercising, that’s not the diet I’m talking about. In a previous post, BootPig commented about finding my focus, and making sure I have the right things in the front [...]
Posted in Life, Submission | Tagged class, housework, information, iron gate, learning, Life, M/s, news, RACK, Submission, submissive guide, work |
By lunaKM on March 27, 2009
There has been less and less descriptive sex on this blog, other than the fantasy I posted this week. It’s not that we don’t have awesome hot fabulous sex or naughty play. Master has mentioned that he’s not really comfortable with private activites being shared now that we have so many people we know face-to-face [...]
Posted in Life, Role Dynamics | Tagged class, journal prompt, Just Sex, Life, love, play, submissive guide, work |
By lunaKM on March 21, 2009
I’m fighting myself to keep from crying. I feel really depressed. I know exactly why too. When I started being a stay at home submissive I had a lot of dreams. I still do. But one thing that knew I’d have to come to terms with is the feeling of value and satisfaction that I [...]
Posted in Life | Tagged bdsm, fight, submissive guide, work |
By lunaKM on March 21, 2009
It’s been a month since I lost my job. I’ve been learning and growing as a stay-at-home submissive. The apartment is a lot cleaner than it ever was, but not as clean as I ultimately want to maintain it. I have worked to develop Submissive Guide and have plans for the future of it so [...]
Posted in Domestication, Life, Simple Living, Submission | Tagged fight, Just Sex, learning, submissive guide, website work, work |
By lunaKM on March 20, 2009
I snuggled with Master this morning and announced that my sex drive was back. I rubbed my hands all over him, rocking my hips against him and he took me. Morning fucks are back on the menu. It’s been so long since we’ve done it that I forgot how wonderful it is. It’s more sensitive [...]
Posted in Just Sex | Tagged fight, Just Sex, play, RACK, submissive guide, work |
By lunaKM on March 16, 2009
Today I will plan my morning routine and how much time I want to devote to Submissive Guide. I want to do the housework in the morning because that is when I feel most productive and it should be my priority. I’m shooting for having all the daily housework done within 2 hours so that [...]
Posted in Life | Tagged housework, Life, love, munch, struggle, submissive guide, work |
By lunaKM on March 9, 2009
Master and I had an argument tonight. I’m still in a bad attitude since getting fired and Master said last week that the attitude stops and it hasn’t. The discussion was full of stress, and crying and miscommunication. I think we’re back on a solid footing, but I’m sure I have a lot of work [...]
Posted in Life, Submission | Tagged attitude, housework, Life, love, submissive guide, website work, work |
By lunaKM on February 27, 2009
It’s been just over a week since I lost my job. I’ve been home everyday trying to learn a new way of living at home. I don’t have a routine started yet. I’m just trying to figure out my daily chores, work with Submissive Guide and trying to keep the dreams at bay. That’s right. [...]
Posted in Submission | Tagged housework, love, submissive guide, website work, work |
By lunaKM on February 25, 2009
Can you do me a favor? I know this is essentially self-promotion, but if you find The Submissive Guide useful and worth keeping going, could you help me out? First, you could always donate a bit of spare change to keep me buzzing with hot tea and chocolate. You can send it to me via [...]
Posted in Life | Tagged Life, love, M/s, submissive guide |
By lunaKM on February 23, 2009
Today is the first day of really getting into a habit that will develop into a routine for me to follow. I’ve never done well being home with nothing to do, so I’ve had to come up with all sorts of things to do to keep me busy. Thankfully I craft a lot and I [...]
Posted in Life, Role Dynamics | Tagged bdsm, Just Sex, Life, love, play, submissive guide, work |
By lunaKM on February 19, 2009
After a bit of discussion with Master, asking advice from other submissives and really searching my heart if it were possible, Master and I have decided to try to have me be a stay at home submissive. I will be learning a more formal protocol and structure, keeping a clean and organized house, learning simple [...]
Posted in Life, Submission | Tagged bdsm, green living, learning, love, play, submissive guide, work |
By lunaKM on February 18, 2009
Yesterday was a horrible day in my life. I only have me to blame for it since I could have not done any internet surfing and I wouldn’t be in this situation. I think that no matter what websites I was looking at I would have been fired for violating their internet policy. I’m not [...]
Posted in Life | Tagged information, Life, pleasure, submissive guide, work |