By lunaKM on November 30, 2009
I put up the Christmas tree yesterday. It’s been nearly 4 years (I think) since I last had any Christmas spirit or desire to decorate for Christmas. Part of my need is to display the ornaments that my stepmom made for me some years ago. I wanted to bring a bit of her into my [...]
Posted in Life | Tagged Desire, faith vs religion, future, introspection, kinky, learning, religious past, Thoughts |
By lunaKM on August 28, 2009
I’ve found a desire to learn how to sew lately. I think the fact that I own a sewing machine now has done it… and that I don’t have clothing that fits me. I looked up a tutorial on making a wrap around skirt and am going off of that for the one I’m making [...]
Posted in Life, Skinny Thoughts | Tagged fat, learning, Master, period, Skinny Thoughts, skirt, sleep study, sparkpeople, Zeus Digital |
By lunaKM on August 5, 2009
During the munch Master and I attended on Saturday there was a lively discussion on Master/slave relationships. I find it quite interesting to hear what people consider to be M/s vs. D/s. The presenter gave a description that to me sounded exactly the same. Description was like the slave has no limits other than those [...]
Posted in Role Dynamics, Submission | Tagged D/s, fire cupping, learning, M/s, master slave relationships, munch, play, protocols, slaves, symbiosis |
By lunaKM on June 3, 2009
This week is going by relatively fast. I worked really hard on Submissive Guide yesterday and today I need to do a bit of housework. Master and I have been working through a few things as far as our dynamic goes. As I mentioned before, Master wants to be more consistent in his enforcement of [...]
Posted in Life | Tagged bdsm, Behavior, class, housework, journey, learning, Life, love, struggle, Submission, submissive guide, work |
By lunaKM on April 30, 2009
[ndb] Confessions of Promiscuity Learning complaisance Seeker of Wisdom Diary of jane Proud Submissive slave isabelle’s journey
Posted in New Blogs | Tagged journey, learning, love |
By lunaKM on April 26, 2009
Sometimes Master likes me to give him pain when we play, especially when I’m jacking him off or something. I’ve mentioned it here before but I can’t be bothered looking in the archives. At first I was startled by this request, but I guess there is a bit of a masochist in Master after all. [...]
Posted in Role Dynamics, Sexual Expression | Tagged Just Sex, learning, love, pain, play, pleasure |
By lunaKM on April 13, 2009
Today was a pretty darned good day! I got a lot of cleaning done in the morning, spent a lazy afternoon reading a book and then Master and I went to Wally-world to get hair color for me! I’m now a burgundy brunette. It’s gorgeous sexy on me. Master loves it, I love it. Right [...]
Posted in Just Sex, Life, Submission | Tagged bdsm, blow job, collar, Just Sex, kinky, learning, love, play, submissive guide |
By lunaKM on April 2, 2009
Not just the same ole’ diet I’ve been trying for years; that’s getting boring and while I do intend to lose weight and work hard at exercising, that’s not the diet I’m talking about. In a previous post, BootPig commented about finding my focus, and making sure I have the right things in the front [...]
Posted in Life, Submission | Tagged class, housework, information, iron gate, learning, Life, M/s, news, RACK, Submission, submissive guide, work |
By lunaKM on March 21, 2009
It’s been a month since I lost my job. I’ve been learning and growing as a stay-at-home submissive. The apartment is a lot cleaner than it ever was, but not as clean as I ultimately want to maintain it. I have worked to develop Submissive Guide and have plans for the future of it so [...]
Posted in Domestication, Life, Simple Living, Submission | Tagged fight, Just Sex, learning, submissive guide, website work, work |
By lunaKM on March 13, 2009
I really do appreciate all of the conversation I’ve gotten in the comments on my recent posts. I appreciate even more that they aren’t as harsh as I was expecting. I’m going to come out and finally tell you all what happened with my firing. I made a stupid mistake. I shared my personal life [...]
Posted in Life | Tagged bdsm, Just Sex, learning, Life, work |
By lunaKM on March 6, 2009
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #161? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set. This [...]
Posted in Blog Events | Tagged bdsm, fight, HNT, Just Sex, learning, love, M/s, news, pain, porn |
By lunaKM on February 19, 2009
After a bit of discussion with Master, asking advice from other submissives and really searching my heart if it were possible, Master and I have decided to try to have me be a stay at home submissive. I will be learning a more formal protocol and structure, keeping a clean and organized house, learning simple [...]
Posted in Life, Submission | Tagged bdsm, green living, learning, love, play, submissive guide, work |
By lunaKM on February 10, 2009
A new development in our sexual relationship has been my serving as Master’s top. Something that seemed to me like a paradox, but from what I’ve read it really can work. So I’m going to make it work. I’ve not met anyone else who has a relationship like ours so I can’t associate this to [...]
Posted in Playtime, Role Dynamics | Tagged Just Sex, learning, Life, love, pain, pleasure, struggle, work |
By lunaKM on February 7, 2009
I am a failure. Something that appears to come easy for someone else I am still spending so much time trying to find my way. I’m talking about pleasuring Master. Countless times I talk about my issues with blow jobs. But really it’s all pleasure that is for Master that I have something wrong. Master [...]
Posted in Submission | Tagged blow job, Just Sex, learning, love, pleasure, Submission, work |
By lunaKM on January 30, 2009
Thank you Master for allowing me to make this more intimate post. Master is quite the anal fan. That’s not saying he has specific ways he prefers things but that he loves ass. My ass and his ass especially. Recently we’ve acquired a few toys that are meant to tease his P-spot. I’m learning how [...]
Posted in Playtime | Tagged learning, love, pleasure |
By lunaKM on January 20, 2009
Just a quick post right now, I had this IQ test shared in one of the munch group listservs I’m in and found it intriguing. XXX IQ Test Warning! You will want pop-up blocker for this. I took it and got a 130 score. If it follows basic IQ rating then I’m a XXX genius [...]
Posted in Life | Tagged learning, munch |
By lunaKM on January 5, 2009
If you have been following my twitter you know already. I’ve started a new web project that I hope will be a wonderful help for submissives everywhere. It’s called Submissive Guide and is set up as a place for self-paced learning, mentorship and training. I’ve just started it, but I’m sure that I’ll have lots [...]
Posted in Notices | Tagged learning, Life, submissive guide, Training, work |
By lunaKM on December 31, 2008
I have my first paid vacation starting now with my job. I have a list of things I want to do for the break and know that I don’t think I’ll get through them all; I will try. I’d love to have been able to go somewhere sandy, with oceans and sun. Instead I’m home; [...]
| Tagged flogging, Just Sex, kinky, learning, Life, love, M/s, munch, play, RACK, work |
By lunaKM on December 5, 2008
The following exercise is to help develop a self-reflective mindset. Write whatever comes to mind first, answers are not carved in stone, and will be analzyed later in training. For now just write. Exercise: Complete the following sentences. I imagine myself as a slave being able to…serve Master completely and peacefully with my heart and [...]
Posted in Miss Abernathy Training | Tagged collar, fight, Just Sex, learning, Life, struggle, Submission, Training |
By lunaKM on November 24, 2008
Cannon said: In your post here: http://blog.the-iron-gate.com/2007/08/28/all-a-matter-of-thought/ …you mentioned that you had a lot of great ideas for affirming and strengthening a D/s dynamic, even at a distance. I would be very interested in learning what you came up with. I myself am faced with this very situation. That’s a really good question and I’m [...]
Posted in Meditation Monday | Tagged D/s, Just Sex, learning, Life, love, Submission, work |