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Sticky: No Blogathon For Me… Unless
Unfortunately I have to announce that I will not be able to do blogathon on my own this year because it is happening on the day I hold my local munch. The munch is 10 hours long (it’s a mini-event). The only way I could participate is if I did a group blog of at [...]
Questioning Community
After another munch where we questioned where Master and I really fit in I think it’s simple to say that we don’t. We aren’t players, we aren’t one of the cool kids, we aren’t swingers who are kinky and we aren’t drinkers. It kinda grated on us and it was commented to a friend of [...]
Going on a Diet
Not just the same ole’ diet I’ve been trying for years; that’s getting boring and while I do intend to lose weight and work hard at exercising, that’s not the diet I’m talking about. In a previous post, BootPig commented about finding my focus, and making sure I have the right things in the front [...]
A Wealth of Information
Yesterday’s munch went really well. We met Mr Iowa Leather 2008, Sir Liam and his slave Bella. He has a passion to unite all of the Iowa kink communities, create a community center in Des Moines and run a yearly (or bi-yearly) event in Iowa. He’s got the obssessive passion, if he gets support it [...]
The Aftermath
Yesterday was a horrible day in my life. I only have me to blame for it since I could have not done any internet surfing and I wouldn’t be in this situation. I think that no matter what websites I was looking at I would have been fired for violating their internet policy. I’m not [...]
Slave Training Lesson #5: Assessing Risk: Your Relationships, Work and Health
In this lesson I get to learn all about the risks I bring with me into the training program. These are all a part or growth and development. First, relationships… Rate your responses to the following statements. Use a scale of 1-10 where 1 means ‘never’ or ‘absolutely not’ and 10 means ‘always’ or most [...]
Weekends
Weekends around here have a different feeling than the rest of the week. I try very hard to find my submissive mindset for the entire weekend. I serve Master his coffee as often as possible and he gets his Sunday foot rub also. It’s about bonding and keeps our dynamic alive and whole while we [...]
Legal and Taboo Play
From the Monday Prompt about Legal Taboos in BDSM on Kinky Sex Link There are some activities that when you hear about them you can’t believe that so-and-so does them to what’s-their-name, or that anyone else would even be interested. You could be so appalled that they even exist and strive to scratch them out [...]
Training With Miss Abernathy and Lesson 1: What is a slave?
One of the books I got from kaya was the Erotic Slavehood book. It is two of Miss Abernathy’s books put together. One of them is Training with Miss Abernathy: a workbook for erotic slaves ans their owners. It’s meant to take at least a year to go through all of the lessons. According to [...]
Kinky is NOT a diagnosis!
DSM Revision Petition The DSM Revision Petition is gathering signatures from individuals and organizations calling on the American Psychiatric Association (APA) to adhere to empirical research when revising the diagnoses in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM). Statements currently within the DSM Paraphilias criteria are contradicted by scientific evidence therefore NCSF must [...]
Explaining WIITWD to Emergency Authorities
I’d hate to think that it’s inevitable, but sooner or later we may have to encounter law enforcement at our door due to nosey neighbors or medical personnel because of a mishap when playing. Knowing what to say to these authorities could keep you safe, protected and make sure that they have some understanding as [...]
Mediation Monday: Home Control Journal
From Submissive Journal Prompts: Do you know what a Butler’s book is? Do you use one as a part of your service? If not, do you have a book to keep track of frequent guests’ preferences so that you can cater to their needs and desires each time they visit? I had never heard of [...]
Sunday Service: Foot Care
Master and I have started a new weekly service item that turns out to be very nice for both of us. Every Sunday evening, I prepare a foot soak for Master and then I dry, massage and lotion them. It takes care of any rough spots and I check his tender instep for aches and [...]
Fetish as a Fad
From FetLife Blog Prompts Group: Do you see the latest trend towards fetish wear and fetish jokes in the media as a fad? Is it a sign that society is accepting kink? Does it have cons as well as pros? What’s your thoughts? There is a lot of fetish appearing in media and it has [...]
Preparing for News
I go to the Dr on a few hours to find out the results of all the tests I had taken before I start a Dr led diet and weight loss program. I’m really nervous to find out the results. Part of me hopes for nothing wrong and then the other part wants a reason [...]
BDSM and Children Do Not Mix
Recently in a forum I read about someone who was just starting a D/s relationship and was bringing someone into the home. The dominant stated that she wanted ideas of how to tell her 9 year old daughter about what she might be seeing and the behaviors that the slave she was bringing in would [...]
Loaning Master Out
In a previous post I talked about the idea of adding another person to this relationship. Master and I still have it up in the air as to whether we would do well in a relationship like that. Nothing more has been discussed because we don’t have any prospective people to consider. Master and I [...]
Amazing Submission: My Development
It’s really quite amazing that I have so much to say all the time about my submission to Master and the beauty of that is it continues to change and grow and extend into all facets of my life. Even when our daily life involves doing the dishes and fixing dinner I can feel my [...]
Sex Survey #1
Snagged from Journey to the Darkside The first time I heard about sex, I thought it was…the coolest thing ever! From when I was 5 I tried to get more information, I experimented with the neighbor across the street (we didn’t know he had to have a hard dick to make it work). Uh-huh. My [...]
Valentine’s Day
I’ve been sick the past few days, some sort of stomach bug I can’t complain. It came on all of a sudden on Tuesday and I’ve had that icky feeling the past few days. I’m going to have to go to work tomorrow because I just can’t miss another day. I’ll feel so far behind. [...]
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