By lunaKM on August 5, 2009
During the munch Master and I attended on Saturday there was a lively discussion on Master/slave relationships. I find it quite interesting to hear what people consider to be M/s vs. D/s. The presenter gave a description that to me sounded exactly the same. Description was like the slave has no limits other than those [...]
Posted in Role Dynamics, Submission | Tagged D/s, fire cupping, learning, M/s, master slave relationships, munch, play, protocols, slaves, symbiosis
By lunaKM on May 15, 2009
I’m hungry. It’s been quite a while since Master and I played more than just a little bondage or pain during sex. I am really craving an intense session. Master is more than willing to comply so I’m sure that it will be in my near future. The fantasy that I wrote about last [...]
Posted in Submission | Tagged D/s, HNT, iron gate, Just Sex, Life, love, pain, play, submissive guide, work
By lunaKM on April 21, 2009
1. Marriage and children aside, what has been your greatest accomplishment in life?
Graduating college when even my family thought I’d give up.
2. Aside from healthy and happy children, what is your greatest ambition for the future?
Developing into the D/s relationship we know is in there, deep in protocol and ritual and lots of love, play [...]
Posted in TMI Tuesday | Tagged D/s, Just Sex, Life, love, play, work
By lunaKM on March 29, 2009
Yesterday’s munch went really well. We met Mr Iowa Leather 2008, Sir Liam and his slave Bella. He has a passion to unite all of the Iowa kink communities, create a community center in Des Moines and run a yearly (or bi-yearly) event in Iowa. He’s got the obssessive passion, if he gets support it [...]
Posted in Role Dynamics, Submission | Tagged Behavior, D/s, information, kinky, Life, love, M/s, munch
By lunaKM on March 15, 2009
Master and I had a little discussion today that I thought was interesting. I told Master that I didn’t think that we’d survive as a couple if the D/s went away and all that was left was love. He agreed. Our love is a fabulous bonus to our relationship, but I know that we’d be [...]
Posted in Role Dynamics | Tagged D/s, love, Submission, work
By lunaKM on December 23, 2008
In this lesson I get to learn all about the risks I bring with me into the training program. These are all a part or growth and development.
First, relationships…
Rate your responses to the following statements. Use a scale of 1-10 where 1 means ‘never’ or ‘absolutely not’ and 10 means ‘always’ or most definitely.’
I am [...]
Posted in Miss Abernathy Training | Tagged abuse, bdsm, D/s, information, Just Sex, Life, Training, work
By lunaKM on December 7, 2008
I’ve been writing for 4 years in this blog. It’s an amazing time frame for any blog and especially since I’ve not seen blogs out there last as long as mine or the few others I read. I don’t have any plans to stop blogging any time soon either.
It’s been a wild ride. I started [...]
Posted in Blog Events | Tagged bdsm, D/s, journey, Life, love, Submission
By lunaKM on November 24, 2008
Cannon said: In your post here:
http://blog.the-iron-gate.com/2007/08/28/all-a-matter-of-thought/
…you mentioned that you had a lot of great ideas for affirming and strengthening a D/s dynamic, even at a distance. I would be very interested in learning what you came up with. I myself am faced with this very situation.
That’s a really good question and I’m sure [...]
Posted in Meditation Monday | Tagged D/s, Just Sex, learning, Life, love, Submission, work
By lunaKM on October 1, 2008
Master and I have had talks about adding more ritual and structure into our relationship that would help with my focus and mindset. I mentioned a few things to him recently and he told me he wanted me to blog about them and think about them so that he can decide whether he likes the [...]
Posted in Protocol | Tagged bdsm, D/s, learning, love, Submission
By lunaKM on September 25, 2008
Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at BDSM is Love. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog!
Have you ever [...]
Posted in Thursday Question | Tagged bdsm, class, D/s, love, play