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Round and Round
I’m annoyed. Master has grown tired of my lack of desire to do things when he’s asked. The pressure I have is that I have to be in the mood when he’s asking me. It’s like going from making coffee to a blow job without any warm up. Today Master wants me to give him [...]
20 Macaroons
On Saturday, good friends of ours came up to visit us. Sir Areli and her girl Ayun spent most of Saturday in our company, dinner and evening-late night fun. We completely enjoy spending time with them because we can be normal and relaxed and ourselves. I had a great time fixing dinner and talking about [...]
Retraining
So as I go about looking through my rules again, and realize that I’ve been really lazy with my training I just can’t believe that Master has been so patient with me about it. I guess I just figured he’d get on my case about it sooner than now. He has to be noticing that [...]
When Master is Too Lenient
Master is great. He’s pleased with what I’m learning, he praises my progress, never forgets (almost) to say thank you for something he has requested. I feel like I’m treated like a princess or an angel. And sometimes I feel like I’m a gently used submissive. Don’t get me wrong, I love how he makes [...]
Public Displays of Discipline
If you are submissive you have likely been in trouble in public. It’s just a matter of time and mood for most of us. A lot of times it isn’t intentional either. And in those moments as you look your owner in the eye you know that s/he will decide to either chastise you there [...]
Public Displays of Dominance/submission
Exposing who we are as Dominant and submissive around people who aren’t party to what we do is dangerous and inappropriate. They have not consented to be party to a scene by anyone. But when it comes to D/s it is who we are and so it can be displayed without harm for those witnessing [...]
Unbalanced Stability makes for a Balanced D/s Relationship
In kaya’s post about Stability in Dominants she brings up that she feels the Dominant in the relationship should be more stable than the submissive. The stability she lists are emotional, financial, career choice and mental. She also wanted to know if our standards for partners, especially Dominants, can be too high. I’d like to [...]
Outside Forces Cause Disconnect with Role and Relationship
Thank god the weekend is here. This week has been the week from hell! Flooding, more flooding, loss of internet with officials saying, “No known date for restoration of services.” Thankfully, we were restored today so my hiatus wasn’t affected at all. I’m exhausted, spent 3 times as much money on gas to go the [...]
Sugasm #134
I am in the BDSM and Fetish category this week for my post Spanking Sex. The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #135? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. Participants, [...]
Serving to Serve vs. Serving for Pleasure
Serving to serve is one form of service I provide my Master. Somehow I’ve compartmentalized it from service for pleasure. It could just be my way of providing more service to him in different ways. An example of service to serve is when I’m not in the mood for a blow job but I know [...]
Miscommunication
Yesterday was a battle of pig-headedness. Neither of us was communicating well and neither of us got what we wanted because of it. There were so many times I wished we could just rewind the day and start over. A bit of back story… Master asked for a blow job. He asked for a specific [...]
The Scales
Master and I are off balance. Lately we’ve been doing our own thing, freely snapping at each other and not very welcoming to D/s or even vanilla sexual advances. It could be all related to holiday stress, or financial strain. Master and I have stayed at our own computers and not really interacting more than, [...]
Checking In With Myself
On my way home from work today I was thinking about how far I’ve come since I was collared in February. I’m amazed at how comfortable I’ve become with my role. I’m more accepting of Master’s rules and his control over me. I don’t fight quite so much. My sexual submission has come leaps and [...]
Great Reads
Here are some of my favorite BDSM books……Enjoy Story of O by Pauline Reage The classic erotic novel, THE STORY OF O relates the love of a beautiful Parisian fashion photographer for Rene. As part of that intense love, she demands debasement and severe sexual and pychological tests. It is a unique work not to [...]
The Difference
I found this essay a few months ago and i wanted to share it with everyone. Abuse vs Erotic Power Exchange By: The National Leather Association The Dutch BDSM Media Information Center The POWERotics Foundation Although discriminatory legislation sometimes likes to let you believe otherwise, there are fundamental differences between erotic power exchange and domestic [...]
My Sage Knowledge
Now, reflect on the previous post where we have two different couples. Did you decide which, if either, are in an abusive relationship? Here’s what comments had to say: Luka says: Seems pretty clear to me. The woman in the first situation is being abused. The woman in the second situation is not. If the [...]
BDSM Primer
(A full, every extensive glossary on all things sexy and kinky can be found at The Iron Gate) BDSM is a huge umbrella term for practically anything kinky. The acronym breaks down something like this: B: Bondage- tying people up with rope, leather or steel. Also can be used mentally by just telling your partner [...]
The Hardest Thing…
The Thursday Question last week was: “What has been the hardest thing for you to accept in your Dominance/submission?” No one answered the question but I thought that this would make an excellent topic for today’s post. The hardest thing for me to accept has been that I am not in control of a lot [...]
Thursday Question #3: Hardest Thing to Accept
Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at luna’s Joueny. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. This will be a regular weekly addition to the site, come back often and see what people have to say! This week’s question: What has been the hardest thing for [...]
Love
Since my recollaring Master and I have played several times, our relationship is stronger than ever and the future is bright and happy. I have looked from the past to the future and I can declare that the state of our love is good! How cheesy is that?! Valentine’s Day may be a day set [...]
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