By lunaKM on March 2, 2009
I’m annoyed. Master has grown tired of my lack of desire to do things when he’s asked. The pressure I have is that I have to be in the mood when he’s asking me. It’s like going from making coffee to a blow job without any warm up. Today Master wants me to give him [...]
Posted in Role Dynamics | Tagged blow job, dominance, Just Sex, mood, RACK
By lunaKM on January 18, 2009
On Saturday, good friends of ours came up to visit us. Sir Areli and her girl Ayun spent most of Saturday in our company, dinner and evening-late night fun. We completely enjoy spending time with them because we can be normal and relaxed and ourselves. I had a great time fixing dinner and talking [...]
Posted in Playtime, Submission | Tagged dominance, love, munch, nipples, play, porn, Submission, submissive guide, Training, work
By lunaKM on January 15, 2009
So as I go about looking through my rules again, and realize that I’ve been really lazy with my training I just can’t believe that Master has been so patient with me about it. I guess I just figured he’d get on my case about it sooner than now. He has to be noticing that [...]
Posted in Submission | Tagged dominance, Life, play, Submission, Training, work
By lunaKM on September 19, 2008
Master is great. He’s pleased with what I’m learning, he praises my progress, never forgets (almost) to say thank you for something he has requested. I feel like I’m treated like a princess or an angel. And sometimes I feel like I’m a gently used submissive. Don’t get me wrong, I love how he makes [...]
Posted in Role Dynamics, Submission | Tagged attitude, blow job, dominance, fight, learning, love, mood, play, Submission, Training, work
By lunaKM on September 13, 2008
If you are submissive you have likely been in trouble in public. It’s just a matter of time and mood for most of us. A lot of times it isn’t intentional either. And in those moments as you look your owner in the eye you know that s/he will decide to either chastise you there [...]
Posted in Role Dynamics | Tagged abuse, D/s, dominance, Life, mood, play, Submission
By lunaKM on August 22, 2008
Exposing who we are as Dominant and submissive around people who aren’t party to what we do is dangerous and inappropriate. They have not consented to be party to a scene by anyone. But when it comes to D/s it is who we are and so it can be displayed without harm for those witnessing [...]
Posted in Role Dynamics | Tagged D/s, dominance, munch, play, Submission
By lunaKM on July 21, 2008
In kaya’s post about Stability in Dominants she brings up that she feels the Dominant in the relationship should be more stable than the submissive. The stability she lists are emotional, financial, career choice and mental. She also wanted to know if our standards for partners, especially Dominants, can be too high.
I’d like to say [...]
Posted in Role Dynamics | Tagged D/s, dominance, Life, play, pleasure, struggle, work
By lunaKM on June 13, 2008
Thank god the weekend is here. This week has been the week from hell! Flooding, more flooding, loss of internet with officials saying, “No known date for restoration of services.” Thankfully, we were restored today so my hiatus wasn’t affected at all. I’m exhausted, spent 3 times as much money on gas to go the [...]
Posted in Submission | Tagged dominance, Just Sex, love, Submission, work
By lunaKM on June 3, 2008
I am in the BDSM and Fetish category this week for my post Spanking Sex.
The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #135? Submit a link to your best post of the week using this form. [...]
Posted in Notices | Tagged bdsm, collar, D/s, dominance, HNT, Just Sex, Life, love, M/s, news, orgasms, pain, play, porn, RACK, work
By lunaKM on May 9, 2008
Serving to serve is one form of service I provide my Master. Somehow I’ve compartmentalized it from service for pleasure. It could just be my way of providing more service to him in different ways.
An example of service to serve is when I’m not in the mood for a blow job but I know he [...]
Posted in Behavior, Submission | Tagged blow job, dominance, Just Sex, love, mood, pain, pleasure, Submission, work