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Not experienced enough
People on Fetlife are judging me without even knowing me. Okay so I’ve not had 20 years of BDSM experience but the viewpoints and opinions I do have can help people. The people say that since I don’t have a degree in therapy or haven’t yet had classes in lifecoaching that I shouldn’t try to [...]
Revamped the Site
This week is going by relatively fast. I worked really hard on Submissive Guide yesterday and today I need to do a bit of housework. Master and I have been working through a few things as far as our dynamic goes. As I mentioned before, Master wants to be more consistent in his enforcement of [...]
Feeling Sexy and Serving
We had a pretty good munch today. A class on Spanking and Impact play went really well I think. Master was nervous as always. He gets sweaty palms, it’s so cute. I love his little nerves. He’s so smart and knows what he needs to know. I know that with every class he gets more [...]
Questioning Community
After another munch where we questioned where Master and I really fit in I think it’s simple to say that we don’t. We aren’t players, we aren’t one of the cool kids, we aren’t swingers who are kinky and we aren’t drinkers. It kinda grated on us and it was commented to a friend of [...]
In a Funk
Master is dealing with me in a bad funk. I just don’t want to do anything, I am not sexual feeling at all and it’s grating on his nerves. He asked me to do his foot massage and I really don’t want to do it. That doesn’t mean I won’t do it, but my heart [...]
Sexy on the First of May
Lexi at Behind The Collar awarded me a Sexy Blogger Award! I’m so touched! She said, “She’s confident and and so devoted to her service. I envy her.” That’s really sweet, really. I am devoted, but only because it makes me so happy to be so true to myself. Thank you Lexi. You are awesome [...]
HNT 4-30-09
On Monday I got my nipples pierced. It was a surprise really. I had been thinking about it for a long time and Master had mentioned it almost 2 years ago. At the time I said, “maybe later.” Well later came on Monday when we walked into the shop just to find out how much [...]
Going on a Diet
Not just the same ole’ diet I’ve been trying for years; that’s getting boring and while I do intend to lose weight and work hard at exercising, that’s not the diet I’m talking about. In a previous post, BootPig commented about finding my focus, and making sure I have the right things in the front [...]
A Bit of Censorship
There has been less and less descriptive sex on this blog, other than the fantasy I posted this week. It’s not that we don’t have awesome hot fabulous sex or naughty play. Master has mentioned that he’s not really comfortable with private activites being shared now that we have so many people we know face-to-face [...]
HNT 3-26-09
My first HNT in a long long time. It’s basic but I’m sure I’ll come out of my skin for some fun ones later on. What would you like to see? -luna
Finding Feelings
I’d like to thank everyone for commenting on my venting post about a disagreement Master and I have had over and over again in our relationship. I really did take all of your thoughts to heart. After having the long difficult discussion with Master I went away and wrote in my physical journal. It’s private [...]
Newly Discovered Blogs
Here is my list of newly discovered blogs within the BDSM blogosphere! I have found them very interesting and enjoyable to read. I hope you will enjoy them and feel free to leave a comment or two. You just may find a new favorite blog! dorian Master’s Connection Elle Essin’ Em Madeline in the Mirror [...]
FetLife Kinky Christmas Stockings!
FetLife is giving away Kinky Christmas Stockings! All you have to do is be a member of FetLife and follow the instructions on the bested Christmas Present page ever! Go HERE now! You could win: The Worlds Best Blindfold by Scott Paul Designs 6 month subscription to Into the Attic 6 month subscription to Backdoor [...]
Mediation Monday: Disagreements, Arguments and Fights
When I gave the BDSM presentation this fall to the Human Sexuality class, one of the questions asked was, ‘How do you make up from fights?” I actually had to pause because Master and I don’t fight. Really, I don’t just ignore that part of our life here on this blog; there really is none [...]
Lesson 2: What kind of slave am I?
Training with Miss Abernathy, Lesson 2 Reading lesson to helps me figure out where my current abilities and talents would take me in slavehood. The exercise was a quiz of sorts Exercise: Imagine you are a live-in slave, serving your ideal dominant. What would your life be like? You can do a Quiz Farm type [...]
Those Special Moments
Saturday was a wonderful day. It started out with a hurried rush to get everything accomplished before our Basic Rope Bondage class we were teaching. The class itself was great. I think that others found the usefullness of a few good rope tricks. Master was really nervous as he isn’t a public speaker. I am [...]
Returning to Strict
Master has begun to return to the strict man I know him to be. He told me last night during dinner that he’s been lenient since we moved in August. Now he is returning to how he prefers to be. I’m silently giddy that he will be correcting me frequently, tightening the reins and perhaps [...]
Thursday Question #55: Legal Slavery Revived, What Would You Do?
Every week there will be a BDSM question posed to readers here at BDSM is Love. Feel free to answer it as candidly as you’d like. If you’d like to participate in the discussion please leave a comment on this post, send me an email or post the response on your own blog! This week’s [...]
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