By lunaKM on June 10, 2009
Unfortunately I have to announce that I will not be able to do blogathon on my own this year because it is happening on the day I hold my local munch. The munch is 10 hours long (it’s a mini-event). The only way I could participate is if I did a group blog of at [...]
Posted in Years of Blogathon | Tagged abuse, bdsm, blogathon, Blogathon 2009, information, munch
By lunaKM on May 8, 2009
Today I worked on some crafts. I made a couple duct tape floggers to sell. If you are interested in one, head on over to my shop. I have the mono colored one listed so far, but I’ll get the duo color one up sometime tomorrow. I’m also working on a duct tape slapper that [...]
Posted in Domestication, Skinny Thoughts | Tagged abuse, housework, Just Sex, Life, play, RACK, work
By lunaKM on December 23, 2008
In this lesson I get to learn all about the risks I bring with me into the training program. These are all a part or growth and development.
First, relationships…
Rate your responses to the following statements. Use a scale of 1-10 where 1 means ‘never’ or ‘absolutely not’ and 10 means ‘always’ or most definitely.’
I am [...]
Posted in Miss Abernathy Training | Tagged abuse, bdsm, D/s, information, Just Sex, Life, Training, work
By lunaKM on November 7, 2008
Training with Miss Abernathy, Lesson 2
Reading lesson to helps me figure out where my current abilities and talents would take me in slavehood. The exercise was a quiz of sorts
Exercise: Imagine you are a live-in slave, serving your ideal dominant. What would your life be like?
You can do a Quiz Farm type test here, [...]
Posted in Miss Abernathy Training | Tagged abuse, class, green living, learning, Life, love, slavery, Training, work
By lunaKM on September 20, 2008
All over the internet there are several common questions and topics that get exhausted to the point of being mute. Some of these I’ve even written about here. Topics that get batted around the blogosphere and kinkosphere often are submissive vs slave, SCC vs RACK, BDSM and abuse, True and Real to name a few.
Another [...]
Posted in Role Dynamics | Tagged abuse, bdsm, class, play, RACK, SSC, work
By lunaKM on September 13, 2008
If you are submissive you have likely been in trouble in public. It’s just a matter of time and mood for most of us. A lot of times it isn’t intentional either. And in those moments as you look your owner in the eye you know that s/he will decide to either chastise you there [...]
Posted in Role Dynamics | Tagged abuse, D/s, dominance, Life, mood, play, Submission
By lunaKM on July 2, 2008
Recently in a forum I read about someone who was just starting a D/s relationship and was bringing someone into the home. The dominant stated that she wanted ideas of how to tell her 9 year old daughter about what she might be seeing and the behaviors that the slave she was bringing in would [...]
Posted in Role Dynamics | Tagged abuse, bdsm, Behavior, collar, D/s, information, Just Sex, Life
By lunaKM on May 2, 2008
I’ve just finished Kushiel’s Justice which if you have read the Kushiel’s Legacy Series you will want to pick this up. I’ve been waiting for 5 months for it come out in paperback and the day finally came. I love it and was doubly excited to see that there is a finally book coming soon [...]
Posted in Submission | Tagged abuse, bdsm, Just Sex, love, munch, Submission, Training, work
By lunaKM on April 2, 2008
Sometimes when you are itching for some play it’s a very specific type of play that you want. In our relationship I’m free to ask for what I want, but Master does not have to comply. Today I asked Master for some helpless fuck whore time. I wanted to be bound so that I couldn’t [...]
Posted in Just Sex | Tagged abuse, love, mood, pain, play, struggle
By lunaKM on February 16, 2008
Yes, I’ve brought up this debate here before and I’ve read it in a hundred places too. Your blogs out there are teeming with it on occasion. Is the desire to be submissive natural or is it part of the way you were brought up? Especially when there was abuse involved. Those internal radars go [...]
Posted in Submission | Tagged abuse, bdsm, fight, Just Sex, Life, love, NLA-I DVP, pain, pleasure, stats, Submission, work