lunaKM

A Slut-Wife Submissive Learning Domestic Slavehood

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Hot and Cold

One foot is now warm, the other is cold. I finished my first hand knit sock yesterday and I’m still celebrating. So much so that I’ve not started the companion to make it a pair. I promise pictures when I get it done. It took me 3 days (only about 10 hours) to knit which is way cool. I even learned the dreaded turning the heel and gussets and the kitchener stitch! Yeah, so over half of you are crossing your eyes about now wondering if you are on the right blog.

You are, really. As a part of my service to Master he is allowing me to explore my crafting and I feel good making things for the home. I even got the go ahead to open an Etsy shop to sell my excess. Watch this space for more information once I have things to sell!

Tomorrow I have a lot planned. I need to go grocery shopping, work through about 8 lbs of potatoes before they go bad and turn them into french fries and quick mashers and freeze them for quick cooking later, make bread, bring in the recycling and clean the bathroom. Wednesday, if the weather isn’t as bad as they are forecasting I should be able to do the laundry.

I like that my submission is settling into a homey domesticated simplified life. I’m feeling more at peace with it than I have in the past.

It’s freezing outside today, and has been all weekend but we stayed indoors so I didn’t feel it. The freaky monkey sex we had on Saturday probably helped with staying warm. It was so good that my nether bits have been tender ever since. Thankfully Master’s demands on my body have been for other areas, giving my puss a much needed rest and recovery. It will be back to full use tomorrow Master!

I’m feeling so good about where I’m going emotionally that I have started focusing on my health again and if you haven’t noticed I’m blogging in my diet blog as well as logging my food and fitness.  I’m thinking 2010 might be my year for a lot of positive changes!

–lunaKM

Obstacles

Today I worked on some crafts. I made a couple duct tape floggers to sell. If you are interested in one, head on over to my shop. I have the mono colored one listed so far, but I’ll get the duo color one up sometime tomorrow. I’m also working on a duct tape slapper that should be fun too :)

My diet is going okay. Either my scale is broken or I haven’t lost any weight in the 2 weeks I’ve been on phase 1 south beach. I’m about ready to toss in the diet thing though. I can’t stop trying to lose weight though, it’s part of Master’s deal breakers now. He hates to see me feel bad about my weight and so he figures that if I am constantly working on bettering my body that I’m happier. He’s probably right. I just miss bread and pasta a lot. It’s not like I abused them when I could have them, but there’s no gauranteeing that I’ll be able to have them in any part of phase 2 either. My body may not do well with them. *sigh* I still have time to make up my mind. I’m going to be really cooking it with exercise though. That’s where the real difference is.

I have an option then to just eat healthier, more whole grain items and smaller portions or stick with south beach diet. I just don’t know right now and I’m sure that the big hang up is that the scale is either busted or I am just way too fat for it (which I wasn’t about 6 mo ago). God I don’t know.

I did really well with the housework today. The house is actually clean and I feel good about it. Master commented on how clean the living room was and I liked having the laundry done and put away instead of living out of the baskets. We are going to get a different litter box system though. The cats seem to not know how to clean their paws out and we get litter tracked through the bathroom, in the hall and into our bed. Ick. I looked into the Breeze system. The litter pellets are way bigger and there are pads you change every 3 days. The pellets last a month and you just clean the waste off the top. Definitely going to try it as the pellets are way to big to get in little kitty paws! The cost differential is no more than I’m spending now in the litter.

We went out and got Master Guitar Hero and I’m watching him play and be all cool. It’s fun. He’s my sexy lead guitarist and I get to fuck him later! Our sex life is pretty darned good and he has some bondage fucking and the bag over my head oral planned for the near future. I’m excited and nervous. Play like this can cause major drops and while he’s very caring and wonderful I would much rather not have to go through them. (Especially since Ice Cream is still off limits!)

–luna

Serving Coffee

So, as I’ve mentioned before, one of the new changes in service has been my addition of announcing the food or item that Master has asked for when I bring it to him. The start of the service was basic coffee service. Master loves coffee and drinks quite a bit of it some days. It was the first rule he established when he moved in over 4 years ago, and probably one of the only ones that doesn’t feel like a rule anymore. I just have a habit now to prepare his coffee every morning.

It took me a good 3 weeks or so to get the sweetness down though. He likes sweet coffee. In a normal 8 oz mug he wants 3 teaspoons of sugar and about 1 teaspoon and a half of creamer. Then we switched to flavored creamer and he’s even happier. French vanilla creamer makes his coffee really sweet.

About 6 months ago I started counting how many stirs I did for each cup to mix the sweetners and it rounded to about 20, so now I count it each time. It’s like a mediation on his coffee. I enjoy it and it has made my coffee service mean more to me when I have a ritual to it.

If Master is still in bed after I’ve woken him and when the coffee is done, I stop by the bedroom door and ask where he’d like the coffee placed (his desk or the end table next to the futon). I’m assuming this also informs him that the coffee is ready and he should try to get up.

I carefully carry it to his requested spot, sometimes I have been known to spill a few drops but I really do try not to. If he is up and at the location, I now announce the arrival of his coffee.

“Your coffee Master.”

“Thank you slut.”

I enjoy doing that. I’m sure that once I get into this ritual I can add to it, perhaps curtesying when he has said thank you or something. I dunno, time will tell what I come up with.

Master likes that I have added to something so simple and made it special for me and for him as well.

–luna

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Service Progress

It’s been a month since I lost my job. I’ve been learning and growing as a stay-at-home submissive. The apartment is a lot cleaner than it ever was, but not as clean as I ultimately want to maintain it. I have worked to develop Submissive Guide and have plans for the future of it so that it will make it where I want it to in a year or so.

Master has noticed a change in me, but I can’t really explain it. It’s by no means easy and I do hope that I can get this done right. I’m obeying with less fight back and I’m working hard on my compliance when asked to do things. I really do think that I can be a model for others as they travel down this new path.

I’ve started enhancing a basic service that I provide Master. When I serve him coffee or anything else I’ve been announcing it. He likes it. So much so that he noticed when I stopped to see if he had paid attention. “Your coffee Master.”

I’m going to start wearing a “uniform” on Monday. I have lingerie and my corset ready to start dressing sexy for Master while I do my housecleaning and website work. I’m going to test that and see if I’m able to stay warm enough with that. I know that summer will be fine. I mentioned to Master that I’d like a few more skirts or summer dresses to wear when out of the house. It is possible that he will allow me to spend a bit of money on sale skirts and dresses, so I better start looking.

I’ve tried the homemade laundry powder with success. I’m not allergic to it and it makes my laundry smell fresh, not perfumed. I will have to buy cheaper bar soap or flakes to make it worth while to continue doing. I plan on trying vinegar in the rinse to get the softener effect. I don’t usually use softener but it will be nice on the towels and sheets for sure.

My cleaning routine is getting refined. I’m planning to get it all tightened down and I can be happy at home.

–luna

Domestically Challenged

domestic -

  1. of or pertaining to the home, the household, household affairs, or the family: domestic pleasures.
  2. devoted to home life or household affairs.

We all have a home to live in; be it an apartment, house, mobile home, condo or mansion. We all have to do some housework to maintain that home. I admit that I do clean the house on occasion, but rarely to the point of spotless shine that I’ve seen other houses. I was raised with the motto, “If you’ve come to see me, come on in; if you’ve come to see the house, make an appointment.” I’ve always lived in some form of disarray. From dishes left undone, the floor needing vacuuming, or god forbid the toilet needing a good brushing. For goodness sake I’m human and I won’t hold anyone up to a higher standard than I do myself. We all have different temperaments when it comes to housekeeping and home affairs. My best friend is always cleaning and has always done so. She’ll clean the kitchen counters before dinner is even finished being prepared; clean as you go it’s called. Yeah, I gave that a try once. It didn’t go over well.

I’ve had a few submissives say to me that if I don’t care for the house and my Master’s home I am not showing him respect. Well, sure I see that. I also see that not every single person cares for their house the same way. I’d rather do less cleaning and more enjoying of my free time. I think Master appreciates that I spend more time with him than with the house. Honestly he’s let the cleaning go for so long that I don’t think it bothers him in the same way as it would bother others. He knows I’ll do some madhouse cleaning on the weekends and the house will be decent for most of the week after. He’s cool with that.

I’ve tried to be more domestically inclined. I’ve joined Flylady.net’s discussion group to help me get on task. I’ve created her home control journal that basically is a set of routines and cleaning schedules with some grocery lists and contact lists thrown in. I still have that journal. Sometimes I pull it out, sometimes it just collects dust. It’s great for those, like me, who live by lists. I just can’t find the discipline to work the journal every day. Discipline of course is another topic.

I’m now on the 30 minute plan. I set the timer and do cleaning for 30 mins, then 30 mins doing whatever I want to do. On and off the timer goes through the day as things get done in their own time. But the wonderful thing is… they get done. The timer method does stretch things out but it also doesn’t burn me out. I dislike cleaning that much.

If Master set a cleaning schedule I’m sure I’d endeavor to do it. I don’t see him as that type yet. He’s of course learning what he wants too and it may change as we grow closer and closer to that perfection we have in mind for us. When that time comes I’ll worry about it.

For now I’m domestically challenged. I’d love to learn more about how to organize my time cleaning, special talents like napkin folding, proper tea and coffee service, event planning and dinner parties. It would be an elegance that is attractive to me. Right now just isn’t the time.

–luna