lunaKM

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Soda Anyone?

Master took me out for dinner and Coldstone tonight! He’s such a wonderful man and I adore when he treats me.

We also had money to burn so we got something off of our wish list – a SodaStream. Master drinks a lot of flavored sparkling water and we constantly have plastic bottles all over the place. This will save us money and recycling/waste from the bottles. Now we just have to find a flavor that he enjoys and we’ll be all set. Thankfully it comes with a sampler pack so we will have fun going through that.

He set it up as soon as we got home and made orange soda. It tastes just like Fanta. Yum! Such a great deal, it really is. Now I just have to find space in my already cramped kitchen for another counter appliance.

Tomorrow I go to UNI for a BDSM presentation. I’ve been doing these every semester for gosh, 8 years now. They are a great learning experience and the teacher always asks us back. Educating vanilla people about kink is a good feeling all around. Master is coming up with me but he won’t sit on the panel – he’s not into that. Thankfully I’ll have company for the drive!

Master ordered another toy for us to play with and I’m excited for it because it was something I suggested to him – a breast vice. But this is no ordinary breast vice, this one has teeth! I love having my breasts squished, squeezed and pressed that I think this will be a fantastic addition to the toybox.

Oh, I’ve looked into making a bondage frame as well and love the idea I’ve seen get some recommendation in the Riggers and Rope Sluts group on FetLife of using an A-Frame steel bracket that they use for wooden swing sets! It requires little in the way of construction that way. I’ll just have to get a drill to make the holes in the beams and then the hardware. I asked Master if he wouldn’t mind having a frame that would fit over the bed and he said get making it slut! Now he hasn’t approved the purchase but I am sure it’s just a matter of time.

–lunaKM

Paper Armor

I Have a Headache

Today I’ve spent most of the time suffering from a headache. I’m quick to believe that it’s a carb withdrawal headache. I took Tylenol early in the day, took a nap and then at 4pm Master told me to take some Migraine meds. That seems to have done the best to dampen the pain. I always rate my pain on a scale of 1 to 10 and until 4pm it was at a 7+. I feel horrible that I didn’t get anything accomplished but I also know that Master would have been upset with me if I had not taken care of myself. I’ll just have to play catch up tomorrow.

I did do some knitting today. I’m working on making a snood for my bad hair days instead of doing a ponytail. It will give my hair an appearance of looking nicer than just a ponytail and I think Master might like it. I’m knitting it and it’s black lacey/bobbles.

I’ve begun the process of adding my ebooks that I sell on Submissive Guide to the Kindle Library. You’ll be able to buy them for you Kindle in a day or two. That should be awesome! I’m really excited about it and can’t believe I took so long to figure that out. I’ve also posted another video to my Youtube channel for subguide. I wish I had done more of them before now, but we’ll see what the future holds.

Master and I will be going to a munch this weekend. It’s going to be a panel discussion on relationships and D/s. We might end up on the panel, we might not. I’ve been told that this munch method goes over really well but I have to wonder if anyone will even be there with the holiday weekend. I enjoy munches immensely. I get to socialize and look forward to them all month long.

On the healthy front, I entered in the food I ate today in my food log and I think I did okay. I’ll keep watching it to make sure I’m consistent. Low carb is difficult to learn but I’m chucking along with information and recipes so it should do great. I brought up to Master that he’s got a small amount of vegetables that he’ll actually eat (peas and carrots) so I feel he’ll get bored sooner than I will. I’m not much of a lettuce fan, but I do have a larger vegetable list.

Training Items I Noticed:

  • Brushing my teeth… is still hit or miss. More miss because Master has been sick and then I’ve been feeling icky so the temptation to kiss him has been down. That’s what’s driving me though- more kissing.
  • I wore makeup yesterday and today. It was minimal but it made me feel good that I remembered to do it without his reminding me.
  • I’ve done a little better with trying to talk to Master from another room, but not good enough. I’ll keep watching myself.
  • Next, using “Master” more often. I gloss over addressing him a lot and I know that is not applying the rule completely. My hope is that the improvement will also keep me in my submissive mindset better.

–lunaKM

Two Big Days Ahead

I’m almost done hand sewing new side panels into a dress that is too small so that it will fit me on Saturday. I should be done tonight/tomorrow morning. KM thinks it will look great so I’m looking forward to that. He’ll be getting up really early with me on Saturday so that he can do a rope corset around my middle over the dress. It should be lovely! Maybe I’ll get a picture or two and share them.

I’m not as nervous as I was yesterday and I’ve read through my outline/notes a few times today. I’m getting more and more confident that I can do this well. I guess anything done the first time is going to cause jitters. Heh.

Saturday will mean 2 weeks till the big day and there’s so much that I’d like to do or get but we are on a buying freeze. I put in the reservation in at the restaurant we are going to. So I think that’s the last thing on the checklist. Tonight I am going to try pincurls in my hair overnight to see how they hold. I liked the hot rollers but I want to be sure about the style that I can do on the day of.

I love Master so much. I crawled back into bed with him this morning and just snuggled and he tucked in and sighed. It was very nice. Just the simple moments feel oh so good. This is what love is. Truly.

–lunaKM

 

Presenting about Pain

The past 2 days I’ve been dealing with a sinus headache. They almost suck more than migraines in the pressure and achyness I feel.

I broke the vacuum today. I need to buy a new brush roller when Master gets paid at the end of this week. Usually it’s the belt, but there’s nothing wrong with that. I haven’t even had the vacuum a year yet. I really miss my used Rainbow vacuum that I had as a wedding gift oh so long ago. It was fantastic with carpets.

It’s confirmed that I am a presenter for the Mischief in May event for the local BDSM group. I’ll be presenting that day along side Jack Rinella, LqqkOut and BigBearr. (A Whips guy too, but he’s not confirmed yet…) Some big names in the regional business! This is my first presentation of any sort so I’m terrified that I 1) won’t be able to use up the whole 90 minutes 2) will sound like I don’t know what I’m talking about 3) Get so turned on by everyone watching me that I flush and get flustered. I’m going to do my presentation on “Learning to Accept Pain” since I’m not a far extreme masochist and don’t turn pain directly into pleasure, but I’ve learned how to make pain play work for me and Master in a beneficial way. I’m sure that with the notes I took from the Pain Processing class in January and my own thoughts and experiences that I can have an interesting class of my own.

Who knows, maybe I’ll be asked to talk again somewhere. It sure will make me feel good if even one person picks something up from the class and learns from it. I’m thinking of taking some information from Submissive Guide and making it presentation/class worthy.

I’ve had a couple questions for March question month, so here’s those:

Robbin wants suggestions for sites dealing with anal sex, and learning about anal sex.

Robbin, there’s a lot of good information out there if you just do a simple Google search for beginning anal sex. My recommendation is to take it slow. Start with getting used to your fingers in there before moving on to anything bigger. Anal play can be a bit uncomfortable at first especially if you’ve not done anything back there before. Relaxing just means more practice. You said you had a butt plug coming in the mail, try to see if you can play with it by yourself first, alone. Learn how your body reacts. That’s the best advice I can give you. Besides lube, lots of lube.

Rafa sent me an email in reference to the post where I shared pictures of my breasts after a caning:


You said the first day you enjoyed it a lot. However, now you are asking about why he did it if he loves you. Is it right? Are your breast very painful yet? When he was whipping to you, would you love he stop before he did? Or the oppositte, were you happy every time he did again in that moment? What did you enjoy more in that moment, the whipping or you are doing it for him?

A curisity, what tipe of flog did you use? Around how many time were you whipped in them? Luna, if he wanted to whip your breast again the next day, were you going to let it?

There’s a lot of questions there and I’ll do my best to clarify for you. Yes I enjoyed it as it was happening. Questioning a few days after was related to sub drop, which is common for me after an intense scene. I talked about the sub drop in this post. My breasts hurt for about 10 days afterwards. I get joy out of pain so I did enjoy the pain as it was happening. I also get a huge thrill at taking more pain and going further than previously.

My breasts were mostly caned. We have a few simple dowel canes that I stained and varnished last year. We also have a small rubber flogger that he used to warm them up.  As to him wanting to whip them again the next day? That wouldn’t have happened. Master does enjoy the marks, but wouldn’t want to injure me. We like to wait till I heal to do it again.

Thanks for the questions!
–lunaKM

This Weekend's Activities

You got me folks, I guess I never meant to delete my archives; I just wondered what the point of them was if no one read them. Heck, now that I know you guys read them I’m even more amazed.

Saturday Master and I went to a dinner and discussion with a play party afterwards. The discussion was great. We talked about the bad rap of bottoms (not that bottom). I wrote up a post for Submissive Guide to be posted later. There were 30 or so people there and I love being around that many in a community where I can be me. Master was his usual witty comments self and I think it’s adorable and awesome. It also means he getting more comfortable with this group. Always a plus.

The party afterwards was alright. There were like 4 kitties there! I’ve never seen so many giant balls of yarn, cat toys and kitty ears in one place! I gave Master a foot rub with some wonderful smelling lavendar vanilla lotion that I borrowed (thanks again, you know who you are!). Upstairs we spent a good deal of time once the play started where we chatted with the hosts and enjoyed just hanging out.

In the conversation there Master said I was a service submissive. I was like what? I am? really? no way. But to him I guess I am, to others I guess I am, I just don’t think I am myself.  Guess it’s something I’ve learned but never accepted. Hmm. It probably goes along the same vein that I don’t think I’m that good of a submissive, but everyone who knows us sure thinks so.

I’m thinking we’ll have to pack a small play bag and just keep it in the car. Master might want to start playing at parties and he can’t do all his naughty things with just his hands (although they are quite capable).  We’ll see if he warms up to the idea. Of playing that is.

–lunaKM