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I don’t really have anything to say today. I’m even at a loss of things to complain about; which is rare. Worked a bit away from the house and got a lot done. Only did 24 mins of exercise today; then got exhausted and I’m feeling better just sitting around. Tomorrow I plan on doing [...]
I love your site and read up on things often. You seem very knowledgable and I hope you can help me. I’m in a M/s relationship but do not have a collar yet. Can you describe what a collaring ceremony consists of? i’m a bit nervous about it.
A collaring ceremony doesn’t have a set script. You can google collaring ceremonies and get a wide range of variations. A typical ceremony isn’t that different from a wedding. You declare your intention to be committed to each other, you read and/or sign a contract, and you exchange a collar. Some people have a celebratory [...]
You are guaranteed a life of luxury but some you are acquainted with will be destitute forever. Would you accept this gift?
Yes. I had to really think about this one, but yes. It would be unfortunate to those I’m acquainted with and I would help them however I could, but that wouldn’t change my life. As it is now, Master is a white collar worker and my whole family is below blue collar, mostly under the [...]
You only seem to want to submit in the bedroom. Other things are pushed aside with excuses of back aches, cramps and other such (according to your blog). why aren’t your Master’s wishes important enough to warrant follow through on your part?
First I’d like to say, I know I’m not perfect. I am not just a bedroom submissive. If all you have to go on is what I say on my blog you have to realize you are only getting whatever glimpse I feel like talking about. The main reason this blog exists is so that [...]
If someone was interested about getting involved in a D/s relationship and came to you for advice, what one piece of advice would you give them?
The one piece of advice I give everyone… get off the internet. Find a local group, get to know people in real life and network with others. If you wish to find someone that’s one of the best ways to go about it. Ask me Anything!
Do you choose not to answer some questions you are asked? If so, why do you make that choice.
I do choose not to answer some questions. If they are blatantly sexual I tend to skip them. If they are confrontational or asking questions I feel are inappropriate or not for public consumption I don’t answer those either. Honestly though, I’m mostly an open book. Master has the rule that personal sexual things (do [...]
How do you express a legitimate need to your Master without being accused of topping from the bottom?
Topping from the bottom has submissives all over fearing asking for anything. This shouldn’t be the case. If you have a NEED, and not a want then you should be able to express that to your Dominant without repercussions of any sort. As with any request, be respectful. If there is an accusation that they [...]
Would you be in favor of trying to get together with other subs and slaves online and forming a weight loss/ healthier living group?
I would if there wasn’t something like that already in existence. http://taking-it-off.com/ is run by starla and has a pretty good success rate the last time I was a part of the site. I also, at one time, ran the Healthy and Kinky group on FetLife, but have since given ownership over to someone else. [...]
given that you have admitted to not being a naturally submissive person could you explain what draws you to submission
Excellent question and one I’ve answered only to myself several times. Submission is a way for me to have structure and give service back. I love the peace and order I feel in my life when I submit to Master. It all started with sexual submission and masochism and in that I am most definitely [...]
What are your daily motivators for completing tasks (tasks both set by you and by your Master)? When I am home a lot I have to keep an eye on myself for laziness and eating.
I don’t have any really. If I want Master happy with me then I’ll do what he wants me to do. If I want to feel good about myself, even proud for accomplishing something I need to do it. Now, part of that is making sure I set goals and ways to achieve those goals. [...]
Hushed
Things have come to a head here at home and I’m realizing that I am not being all that I promised I’d be. There comes a time every so often when I have to realize what is important in my life and focus on that. My online presence is taking away, in my opinion, to [...]
Short Answers for FormSpring Questions
Have you considered having weight loss surgery? why or why not. I am against weight loss surgery. I will not do something elective that will permanently alter my internal organs and leave me dependent on pills to get my vitamins and minerals and other vital nutrients that I can’t get because I can’t eat what [...]
whats the kinkiest thing u would like to do but still havent been able to ?
Master and I have wanted to clone his cock and our last attempt we realized we need more rubber fill in order to make it. We haven’t ordered a new kit. Once that is done I have so many fantasies of being fucked in the ass and cunt at the same time with Master’s cock. [...]
Why do you think you have such trouble submitting if submitting is what you really want to do? Do you truly believe your owner has authority over you or do you just want to believe it?
Submission doesn’t come easy for everyone even if it is your very heart’s desire. I enjoy submitting, but have never confessed to being a really good domestic or service-oriented submissive. In these areas I still continue to struggle but am finding my focus a little more each and every day. Master would like a domestic, [...]
What material would your ideal collar be made off? If the material does not exist could you please describe its properties.
My ideal collar is whatever Master wants me to wear really. I’ve always loved chocker collars as a teen/early 20′s. When Master told me he wanted me to wear that style for a collar I was fine with that. I’m wearing a locked steel one now, and find it beautiful. I could always dream of [...]
FormSpring
That’s right folks, I’m in formspring. Ask me anything, anonymously! And just so folks who don’t go there can know my answers, I’ll be posting them here also. Stay tuned as I post the previous question/answers. lunaKM on Formspring
Question 1: Pain Conflict
trazure asked me: “How do you handle the conflict of needing and wanting pain when a Master wont give it because he’s fearful of his own reaction to the enjoyment of your hurt?” trazure, Just as submissives and bottoms have to come to terms with the idea of enjoying pain, Dominants and Tops have to [...]
Off
I’m really not sure what to talk about today. Master and I have been out of sorts since this weekend. We’ve had issues with feelings of a head cold, headaches and stress. Today we spent much of it apart, only coming together once or twice for an exchange. Not always good. It’s been difficult to [...]
New Diet Post on Sparkpeople.com!
I’ve written a new post over on SparkPeople.com. If you are following my diet efforts, come on over!
SubWise #6 – BDSM Myths
On Tuesday I asked over on Submissive Guide the following Question: What myth(s) do you know about pertaining to BDSM? What is the truth behind the myth? Why should it be dispelled? Now I’ve talked about myths here on this blog several times but since they are buried in my archives I thought I’d showcase [...]
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