Anyone else with poly partners? KM is considering yet another of my friends as a partner. They get along well so I can’t blame him but…. I can’t be friends with people who are dating my husband and then if they break up that’s just the end of the friendship too. It just rubs me the wrong way.

And at first, I thought it was his fault, and I wanted to blame him for it. But if my friends valued my relationship with them I think they’d ask me if it were okay or consider my friendship more valuable that they wouldn’t want to jeopardize it? I dunno.

I know I’m thinking with my monogamous brain.