Channeling

Thank you for asking another question for March question month!

How can I best channel either the submissive side or the dominant side at any given time and in any given situation? It seems to be the same struggle as with feeling strained to be submissive when you don’t “feel” it, but it also seems that is the time when it is the most important to one’s true character…

Channeling the submissive (or dominant) role and mindset still frustrates me. I don’t have any really good advice to give you since I can’t switch so being submissive is just something I am and have to do all the time; even moreso now that I’m stay at home.

Fake it till you make it. If you can’t mentally switch, pretend. The more you pretend the easier it will be to finally just see the switch and do it. When I don’t feel submissive, I still do what’s required of me (most of the time).

Can anyone else help out this person?

–luna

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