Comments on: Master’s Request for a Service Top http://lunakm.me/2009/02/masters-request-for-a-service-top/ luna's explorations into BDSM, submission, service and love Tue, 09 Mar 2010 04:15:11 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: alexjade http://lunakm.me/2009/02/masters-request-for-a-service-top/comment-page-1/#comment-7965 alexjade Tue, 17 Feb 2009 04:04:18 +0000 http://blog.the-iron-gate.com/?p=2342#comment-7965 to each his own. :) to each his own. :)

]]> By: luna http://lunakm.me/2009/02/masters-request-for-a-service-top/comment-page-1/#comment-7961 luna Thu, 12 Feb 2009 03:04:08 +0000 http://blog.the-iron-gate.com/?p=2342#comment-7961 We aren't really into blood play at all, so cutting isn't going to be on our list of play activities. ;) We aren’t really into blood play at all, so cutting isn’t going to be on our list of play activities. ;)

]]> By: alexjade http://lunakm.me/2009/02/masters-request-for-a-service-top/comment-page-1/#comment-7960 alexjade Thu, 12 Feb 2009 01:38:55 +0000 http://blog.the-iron-gate.com/?p=2342#comment-7960 yeah im new to your blog. also in general relatively new to kink life. :) blogs this well established take so much time to catch up on i just started reading from when i discovered it. ;) that being said - have you tried exactos??? yeah im new to your blog. also in general relatively new to kink life. :) blogs this well established take so much time to catch up on i just started reading from when i discovered it. ;)

that being said – have you tried exactos???

]]> By: luna http://lunakm.me/2009/02/masters-request-for-a-service-top/comment-page-1/#comment-7958 luna Wed, 11 Feb 2009 00:33:16 +0000 http://blog.the-iron-gate.com/?p=2342#comment-7958 ROFL! You know you are a new reader to my blog when you recommend clothespins.... Nothing wrong with that, but I swear I have <a href="http://blog.the-iron-gate.com/2007/08/pinch-pull-clamp-no/" rel="nofollow">stories</a> <a href="http://blog.the-iron-gate.com/2007/05/public-playtime/" rel="nofollow">here</a> of the hundreds I've had on my body all at one time. I'm not stranger to wooden and plastic little beasts. Thanks though. ROFL! You know you are a new reader to my blog when you recommend clothespins…. Nothing wrong with that, but I swear I have stories here of the hundreds I’ve had on my body all at one time. I’m not stranger to wooden and plastic little beasts.

Thanks though.

]]> By: luna http://lunakm.me/2009/02/masters-request-for-a-service-top/comment-page-1/#comment-7957 luna Wed, 11 Feb 2009 00:29:17 +0000 http://blog.the-iron-gate.com/?p=2342#comment-7957 alexjade, Thank you for the tips. They might help, but he's more into just being masochist. He still controls how much pain he gets and when. I'm still serving his needs in this. For Fetlife, I'm well aware. I have my profile linked in the sidebar. I run 4 groups there :) alexjade,

Thank you for the tips. They might help, but he’s more into just being masochist. He still controls how much pain he gets and when. I’m still serving his needs in this.

For Fetlife, I’m well aware. I have my profile linked in the sidebar. I run 4 groups there :)

]]> By: alexjade http://lunakm.me/2009/02/masters-request-for-a-service-top/comment-page-1/#comment-7956 alexjade Wed, 11 Feb 2009 00:28:52 +0000 http://blog.the-iron-gate.com/?p=2342#comment-7956 Oh! One of our favorite toys that is so so cheap - go to the store and buy a bag of 100 or so wooden clothes pins. Pin them everywhere. Several per nipple, some on the neck, behind the knees. When you pin the penis, start at the bottom, so there is room for even more pins, and work up. If you're new to this, go slow. Start with 50 or so, and only put 1 on the tip. I usually put a vibrator on them too - drives him wild! Tyoing him down works well in pairin with it, especially when you tie the rope over the pins on his nipples so t brushes them when he moves. I usually take a soft rope and tie it loosely around his neck, then wrap it down and use some more pins to secure the rope around his penis (think cock ring but softer) and wind it behind him and back up to the neck. Drives him mad. Also - pain is good but so is safety. These can be very painful. I do not recommend leavig them on past the orgasm. Take them off soon. And don't wait too long to let him orgasm when they're on, either. You can work up to longer and longer, but if you're new, it's good to start very slow. Just remember - he might want to pay you back. So in spare time, when he's not around, if you have it, you might also want to get used to them. The best way to clip them to yours - only 1 directly on the nipple, and get the mnipple into that opening. not directly clipped. 1 to either side of and top/bottom of it (5 total per boob) are also a good, slow way to start. Oh! One of our favorite toys that is so so cheap – go to the store and buy a bag of 100 or so wooden clothes pins. Pin them everywhere. Several per nipple, some on the neck, behind the knees. When you pin the penis, start at the bottom, so there is room for even more pins, and work up. If you’re new to this, go slow. Start with 50 or so, and only put 1 on the tip. I usually put a vibrator on them too – drives him wild! Tyoing him down works well in pairin with it, especially when you tie the rope over the pins on his nipples so t brushes them when he moves. I usually take a soft rope and tie it loosely around his neck, then wrap it down and use some more pins to secure the rope around his penis (think cock ring but softer) and wind it behind him and back up to the neck. Drives him mad.

Also – pain is good but so is safety. These can be very painful. I do not recommend leavig them on past the orgasm. Take them off soon. And don’t wait too long to let him orgasm when they’re on, either. You can work up to longer and longer, but if you’re new, it’s good to start very slow.

Just remember – he might want to pay you back. So in spare time, when he’s not around, if you have it, you might also want to get used to them. The best way to clip them to yours – only 1 directly on the nipple, and get the mnipple into that opening. not directly clipped. 1 to either side of and top/bottom of it (5 total per boob) are also a good, slow way to start.

]]> By: alexjade http://lunakm.me/2009/02/masters-request-for-a-service-top/comment-page-1/#comment-7955 alexjade Wed, 11 Feb 2009 00:23:26 +0000 http://blog.the-iron-gate.com/?p=2342#comment-7955 My partner and I are switches. He is a true switch, equally turned on either way. I tend to be more of a bottom, and I run top to please him because he enjoys it, though I do get a good deal of pleasure out of hesaring him call me mistress... You can ask me if you need anything, or want to learn ideas. This gives my email address to you, I believe. For general advice, I would suggest looking into switch relationships to see how it works. Also - relish this. Use it. If you don't want to give him a blow job during this time, deny him. If you want to be fucked, make him. My favorite game is making him beg me to come, and I will deny him over and over again. I will come 2 or 3 times before allowing him to come. It's a real turn on when he can't control himself, and is apologising to me..... Also, you're probably aware, but there's a great website called http://www.fetlife.com There are a lot of people - tops, bottoms, switches, masters, slaves, vanilla, kink - at all points in these relationships. You can probably find a lot of mentors there, too. Just browsing group discussions will lead to a lot of ideas. My partner and I are switches. He is a true switch, equally turned on either way. I tend to be more of a bottom, and I run top to please him because he enjoys it, though I do get a good deal of pleasure out of hesaring him call me mistress…

You can ask me if you need anything, or want to learn ideas. This gives my email address to you, I believe. For general advice, I would suggest looking into switch relationships to see how it works. Also – relish this. Use it. If you don’t want to give him a blow job during this time, deny him. If you want to be fucked, make him. My favorite game is making him beg me to come, and I will deny him over and over again. I will come 2 or 3 times before allowing him to come. It’s a real turn on when he can’t control himself, and is apologising to me…..

Also, you’re probably aware, but there’s a great website called http://www.fetlife.com There are a lot of people – tops, bottoms, switches, masters, slaves, vanilla, kink – at all points in these relationships. You can probably find a lot of mentors there, too. Just browsing group discussions will lead to a lot of ideas.

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