Comments on: Thursday Question #53: Faking It http://lunakm.me/2008/09/thursday-question-53-faking-it/ luna's explorations into BDSM, submission, service and love Sat, 13 Mar 2010 19:09:00 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1 hourly 1 By: luna http://lunakm.me/2008/09/thursday-question-53-faking-it/comment-page-1/#comment-7472 luna Sat, 27 Sep 2008 13:24:17 +0000 http://blog.the-iron-gate.com/?p=1933#comment-7472 I faked a lot of orgasms when I was in my past marriage. The guy would never listen or learn when I showed him what I liked. He could never repeat it. So to get him to stop hurting me or boring me I'd fake it and we could then move on. With Master I've never felt that he couldn't please me. I showed him once and now I rarely have a desire to masturbate on my own. He's fabulous at getting me off in so many ways. During play I'm pretty honest with my noises and reactions. Being honest about how things are feeling is very important and besides Master can read my body language better than my noises could ever convey. He'd know if I was faking it; and why would you do that to yourself if he's holding the paddle? I faked a lot of orgasms when I was in my past marriage. The guy would never listen or learn when I showed him what I liked. He could never repeat it. So to get him to stop hurting me or boring me I’d fake it and we could then move on.

With Master I’ve never felt that he couldn’t please me. I showed him once and now I rarely have a desire to masturbate on my own. He’s fabulous at getting me off in so many ways.

During play I’m pretty honest with my noises and reactions. Being honest about how things are feeling is very important and besides Master can read my body language better than my noises could ever convey. He’d know if I was faking it; and why would you do that to yourself if he’s holding the paddle?

]]> By: www.the-f-mag.com http://lunakm.me/2008/09/thursday-question-53-faking-it/comment-page-1/#comment-7468 www.the-f-mag.com Fri, 26 Sep 2008 17:33:34 +0000 http://blog.the-iron-gate.com/?p=1933#comment-7468 <strong>Faking and BDSM...</strong> Interesting discussion going on at The Iron Gate (BDSM is Love) where the question to debate is "Faking It", more so is faking moans, orgasms or what ever popular in BDSM or not at all welcomed? Check it out and give your point of view. Bookmark/Se... Faking and BDSM…

Interesting discussion going on at The Iron Gate (BDSM is Love) where the question to debate is “Faking It”, more so is faking moans, orgasms or what ever popular in BDSM or not at all welcomed? Check it out and give your point of view.
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]]> By: baby http://lunakm.me/2008/09/thursday-question-53-faking-it/comment-page-1/#comment-7465 baby Fri, 26 Sep 2008 12:59:14 +0000 http://blog.the-iron-gate.com/?p=1933#comment-7465 I just can't fake orgasms... I'm not a good actress... As well as, I don't/haven't upped the sound works during a scene... as I believe that if the reaction of more volume from me is what is needed or wanted - He'll bring it on without my faking it or being asked to... I liked what Lelion commented re: not feeling like your in a porn or for show... that's well said and a very good example to my own feelings about it .... I just can’t fake orgasms… I’m not a good actress… As well as, I don’t/haven’t upped the sound works during a scene… as I believe that if the reaction of more volume from me is what is needed or wanted – He’ll bring it on without my faking it or being asked to… I liked what Lelion commented re: not feeling like your in a porn or for show… that’s well said and a very good example to my own feelings about it ….

]]> By: BloggingSlave http://lunakm.me/2008/09/thursday-question-53-faking-it/comment-page-1/#comment-7463 BloggingSlave Thu, 25 Sep 2008 23:59:17 +0000 http://blog.the-iron-gate.com/?p=1933#comment-7463 Excellent discussion point. I don't think there's any place for faking it in a D/s or M/s relationship, as it's akin to lying. I wrote a complete blog post about it <a href="http://bloggingslave.com/2008/09/25/faking-it/" rel="nofollow">here</a>. Excellent discussion point. I don’t think there’s any place for faking it in a D/s or M/s relationship, as it’s akin to lying. I wrote a complete blog post about it here.

]]> By: sydswoman http://lunakm.me/2008/09/thursday-question-53-faking-it/comment-page-1/#comment-7462 sydswoman Thu, 25 Sep 2008 23:29:25 +0000 http://blog.the-iron-gate.com/?p=1933#comment-7462 I faked every orgasm save 2 in the 9 years and 11 months I was married... I will NEVER EVER EVER do it again... with Syd... I don't have to.. I'm free to be me and he encourages me to feel things deeply and to express myself... I probably over do it, but not because I am embellishing, but because I am reveling in the freedom. I faked every orgasm save 2 in the 9 years and 11 months I was married… I will NEVER EVER EVER do it again… with Syd… I don’t have to.. I’m free to be me and he encourages me to feel things deeply and to express myself… I probably over do it, but not because I am embellishing, but because I am reveling in the freedom.

]]> By: lelion http://lunakm.me/2008/09/thursday-question-53-faking-it/comment-page-1/#comment-7455 lelion Thu, 25 Sep 2008 15:26:43 +0000 http://blog.the-iron-gate.com/?p=1933#comment-7455 There is nothing that turns me off more then fake moaning, or even constant moaning! Just takes away the whole moment and trying to read if what your doing is good or not. I guess I'd just rather real, not feel like I'm in a porn and all this is just for show. I guess I'm a little hardcore when I say this, but I've never faked and of the few partners that I had that faked, it was all over. I think exaggeration is ok, like "ooooh ya" translated: "keep going there, I think something in this direction might turn me on", but outright faking it to turn the other on I just don't get. Make it real so both can enjoy no? There is nothing that turns me off more then fake moaning, or even constant moaning! Just takes away the whole moment and trying to read if what your doing is good or not. I guess I’d just rather real, not feel like I’m in a porn and all this is just for show. I guess I’m a little hardcore when I say this, but I’ve never faked and of the few partners that I had that faked, it was all over.

I think exaggeration is ok, like “ooooh ya” translated: “keep going there, I think something in this direction might turn me on”, but outright faking it to turn the other on I just don’t get. Make it real so both can enjoy no?

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