Our 4 year anniversary is coming up in just over a week. I can’t believe that 4 years ago I was meeting a man for the first time and he would never go home. It’s been a wild and wonderful ride, one that I hope never ends. Last night he asked me if I ever think we might be a couple that is together forever. Oh yes, I do and it fills me with such happiness and awe.
We don’t fight. It may seem to some that it’s a lie, but what I tell on this blog is the truth and I would certainly be talking about fights too if we had them. We do disagree from time to time but it’s always elevated civility and never gets to yelling or worse. I never thought a relationship would be a rock solid as ours is.
Yesterday I was going through a really hard time and was more depressed and needy than I had been in a long while. Without a thought, Master took the day off work and spent it with me. Sitting with me, laying with me when I needed to lay down or rest, and just being there. We hugged a lot and kissed a lot and fucked frequently. Whatever I looked like I needed he gave, just to help me though my day. I would have never gotten that in past relationships.
I’m a lot better today, I’m feeling more normal and I think I have Master’s constant attention yesterday to thank for it.
If any of you recall there was a time in 2005 where our financial hardship was intense. I made a bad choice and wrote a rubber check for a vetrinary bill. My cat was dying and needed to stay overnight for medication and healing. Well this check has come back to bite me. I have a court date for the 16th and am in need of a lawyer. I’ve never had to look for a lawyer before. What kind of questions do you ask? How much is too much for a retainer? The phone book has pages and pages of attorneys, where do I start– with A?
–luna
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I’m sorry to hear about your legal troubles! You might want to check out lawyers.com. It’s a huge website that has a ton of articles for people who need to hire a lawyer, and I know there are a few that answer the exact kinds of queestions you’re asking. I’ve used it a bunch of times whenever I want to find out more about a legal issue. Best of all, it’s free! I think you can also get info about individual lawyers on there, too.
Back in 1992 i wrote a check and it bounced and i had no clue it bounced until i was ARRESTED and went to jail for 45 minutes. The sheriff was my moms next door neighbor and he had to let me out because i almost had a stroke lol. Anyways come to find out the check was for 4.19 for two gallons of milk for my four kids.
Thank God i just had to pay a fine and i’ve never been near a jail again lol
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Get a referral. It’s the only way to do it. I needed a lawyer quite suddenly for my divorce. So I contacted the only person in town I knew would have access to a variety of solid opinions, my real estate agent. She asked around and came up with a short list for me. From there it was a matter of checking prices and going with my gut. Most lawyers have a free consultation, use it. I was in such distress when I needed a lawyer, that I went with the one who was clear about pricing and was kind on the phone.
For your situation, it is probably a cut and dry case. You need someone to help you navigate the system to your best benefit. Lilly had a similar situation recently. After being sued, we were able to secure a loan for the amount of the balance due, plus a portion of the interest. They were so happy we were paying cash and didn’t have to pay legal fees, they accepted the offer and dropped the suit.
I hope this goes well for you.
-A.