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Do you have requirements for your health and fitness? What role does your partner have in controlling this part of your life?
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I was “the fat girl” in school, and I’ve always had to fight to keep my weight at what I consider to be a reasonable level. I’ve varied 10-20 pounds for the past few years and right now I’m at the “high end” of that scale.
For me, I like to be able to wear the clothes that I have and not have to get new ones because I’ve put on inches. So there’s incentive to keep myself relatively fit there.
Master isn’t obsessed with my being thin but he does like me to be fit. He likes the shapely legs I have from all my years of bicycling, so we’ve been doing that together (although right now he’s in much better shape for bicycling than I am… he’s a machine! LOL) And we do Bowflex together, again so that I can tone up.
Left to my own devices, I’d probably just diet to keep my weight down, so Master is very instrumental in keeping me exercising. Of course, he sets a good example for me, too!
Ooh, it sounds like if nothing else, your Master gives a nice view to chase on the bike!
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Good for you!
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I HAVE to take medication daily, I have renal failure.
Master will measure out my drugs, get me a suitable drink, and stand over me whilst I take them.
I usually get a pat on the head and a “there’s a good girl”
When I asked Him about it He said “I am just looking after you, get used to it”
Lovely!
How wonderful! To get such praise for simply taking your pill. You have such a sweet Master.
Oh great question. I should post about this.
The past few weeks i’ve went back to my yoga and pilates and Sir has asked that i write down what i do and how i feel afterwards and email Him but He has not asked me to change my eatting habits.
So did you post about it? Care to share?
I’m a little taller than 5′9″ and my wrists are a bit more than 6″ around. I really can use that old “big boned” excuse, but I’m about 20 pounds overweight even then. Big n’ Squishy. I do yoga and I walk all over the place. My Dom like taking walks with me, but so far it’s just been fun. We walked about 9 miles together last week! I think if this started to be encorporated into your D/s dynamic I would be a upset (Read: ticked off and offended.)
I’m on a hormone treatment that really upsets me. I find it humiliating and depressing and I’m terrified of the potential side effects. I have to take it at the same time every night, and I’m a real space cadet. I have an alarm on my phone to remind me to take it, when I have my phone and my meds with me. He helps me remember to take it, and he’s very subtle about encouraging me that the effects will be worth the misery. Again, nothing that is an overt part of our D/s dynamic.
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I really want to lose weight and exercise, I know Jae would support that in me. I want to be able to tire out my Master someday, and when I become a mom I want to be able to run around with my children.
Good luck to everyone who’s on a weight loss journey!
-Morwin
As I have a huge amount of health issues, I like my Dom to be helping me with this and controlling aspects of it.
Im under instruction to try to do some exercise each day eg walk about the block once, twice if possible.
Im not allowed to binge eat (im a chronic binger otherwise). Im only allowed a small amount of chocolate once a week. I was also under instruction to try to loose some weight by eatting sensibly (I’ve achieved that weight loss now).
The fact that I got told to loose weight and eat sensibly by my Dom.. made dieting so so much easier for me
“Do you have requirements for your health and fitness?”
Yes, absolutely. unfortunately. disagreeably. yes. my owner is very interested in physical health for longterm longevity, and insists in a regime (no, i didn’t say “regimen”) about excercise, food intake, etc. my history has one significant era of weight gain, and while i’ve done a lot of work on my own to become physically more healthy, my owner has since picked it up and made me run with it.
“What role does your partner have in controlling this part of your life?”
i have a food log and daily and weekly requirements regarding exercise, both type and duration. over the last year my diet has gotten more and more restricted, and is now directly tied to orgasm control. (“wanna come? eat your greens.” type of thing.) the few times i’ve fallen down on the task, it’s been corrected via a method i absolutely hate – more exercise.
i’m lazy, but obedient, so it works.
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Oh my I’m so very glad I don’t have a Master that works that way! I’d be doing exercise all the time. And to restrict orgasms too, nu-uh.
I am however happy it is working for you. Time will only tell if my own routine will work for me.
Man, i find it so hard to lose weight. i work out and eat well but i am STILL overweight. i find it hard to be sexy when i feel so fat but i try not to say anything to Master because he gets upset when i do.
Good luck to us all.