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	<title>Comments on: Stats and a Rack</title>
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		<title>By: luna</title>
		<link>http://lunakm.me/2008/04/stats-and-a-rack/comment-page-1/#comment-6617</link>
		<dc:creator>luna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2008 19:18:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;s/nik,&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Thank you so very much! I&#039;ve never thought of myself as a leader in blogging, but I figure I&#039;ve been around a long time compared to others. I&#039;ve been around heh.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I&#039;m trying not to focus on the numbers now, but the journey I have to talk about. I have a lot to think about, and as my life changes I have to record these changes.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;I&#039;m happy to know that others start blogging because of me! I just tell it like it is, I&#039;m real and I hope that it helps.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>s/nik,</p>
<p>Thank you so very much! I&#8217;ve never thought of myself as a leader in blogging, but I figure I&#8217;ve been around a long time compared to others. I&#8217;ve been around heh.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m trying not to focus on the numbers now, but the journey I have to talk about. I have a lot to think about, and as my life changes I have to record these changes.</p>
<p>I&#8217;m happy to know that others start blogging because of me! I just tell it like it is, I&#8217;m real and I hope that it helps.</p>
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		<title>By: MJ's slave</title>
		<link>http://lunakm.me/2008/04/stats-and-a-rack/comment-page-1/#comment-6615</link>
		<dc:creator>MJ's slave</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Apr 2008 18:10:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>luna,
What a beautiful photo! EXCELLENT!!
As far as the stats, i know the numbers can become quite seductive. i have been ordered not to look at them on more than one occasion as Master felt it reflected a focus on who might be reading rather than using the blog for the purpose he intended, which was organized communication with Him.
Also, He grew weary of hearing me complain about the number and length of the visits with no comments what so ever! So, i understand the thought process you might be going thru.
You have been a leader in the BDSM blogging world and were there to show the way to the many, many of us who are now out there sharing our journeys.  i think that may have something to do with the numbers decreasing.  So many are writing now that it is difficult to keep up with all the great writers available.  i know i find my time limited, both by life and Master, for how many i am able to read regularly.

For what it&#039;s worth, i love the new look and appreciate all you have done to pave the way for a freer approach to this thing we do!
Hugs!
~s/nik</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>luna,<br />
What a beautiful photo! EXCELLENT!!<br />
As far as the stats, i know the numbers can become quite seductive. i have been ordered not to look at them on more than one occasion as Master felt it reflected a focus on who might be reading rather than using the blog for the purpose he intended, which was organized communication with Him.<br />
Also, He grew weary of hearing me complain about the number and length of the visits with no comments what so ever! So, i understand the thought process you might be going thru.<br />
You have been a leader in the BDSM blogging world and were there to show the way to the many, many of us who are now out there sharing our journeys.  i think that may have something to do with the numbers decreasing.  So many are writing now that it is difficult to keep up with all the great writers available.  i know i find my time limited, both by life and Master, for how many i am able to read regularly.</p>
<p>For what it&#8217;s worth, i love the new look and appreciate all you have done to pave the way for a freer approach to this thing we do!<br />
Hugs!<br />
~s/nik</p>
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		<title>By: Morwin</title>
		<link>http://lunakm.me/2008/04/stats-and-a-rack/comment-page-1/#comment-6536</link>
		<dc:creator>Morwin</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Apr 2008 12:20:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;m a college girl, I&#039;ve been focusing on my schoolwork lately. There&#039;s also Jae, a complication in and of itself (on my blog)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m a college girl, I&#8217;ve been focusing on my schoolwork lately. There&#8217;s also Jae, a complication in and of itself (on my blog)</p>
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		<title>By: luna</title>
		<link>http://lunakm.me/2008/04/stats-and-a-rack/comment-page-1/#comment-6534</link>
		<dc:creator>luna</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Apr 2008 10:11:23 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&lt;p&gt;Aww, thank you everyone! I wasn&#039;t whoring for comments, but they are quite nice! Yes, I noticed that when I updated WordPress to 2.5 the RSS URL changed and people had to get the new one. It is likely that people haven&#039;t realized it yet and are missing my posts. Thanks to everyone who found me again ;)&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt; &lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Slave Jane, thank you for the suggestions, I will definitely add them to my list of questions, sometimes it&#039;s a challenge coming up with something interesting!&lt;/p&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Aww, thank you everyone! I wasn&#8217;t whoring for comments, but they are quite nice! Yes, I noticed that when I updated WordPress to 2.5 the RSS URL changed and people had to get the new one. It is likely that people haven&#8217;t realized it yet and are missing my posts. Thanks to everyone who found me again <img src='http://lunakm.me/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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<p>Slave Jane, thank you for the suggestions, I will definitely add them to my list of questions, sometimes it&#8217;s a challenge coming up with something interesting!</p>
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		<title>By: Cloud</title>
		<link>http://lunakm.me/2008/04/stats-and-a-rack/comment-page-1/#comment-6533</link>
		<dc:creator>Cloud</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Apr 2008 09:09:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sorry I have been occupied  I have read your blog but shame on me did not comment . As for the pictures or lack of them it is really your words I am after the pictures are just a very pleasant addition.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sorry I have been occupied  I have read your blog but shame on me did not comment . As for the pictures or lack of them it is really your words I am after the pictures are just a very pleasant addition.</p>
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		<title>By: slave jane</title>
		<link>http://lunakm.me/2008/04/stats-and-a-rack/comment-page-1/#comment-6530</link>
		<dc:creator>slave jane</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Apr 2008 07:44:48 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hey girl I am still around. PC has been out of comission for a bit. One thing I love about your blog is that it is about your journy. Not just the wild sex. I am not a big fan of sex, so... Your blog adds to the realism of it all. Plus I love your thursday questions.

Suggestion:
Maybe...For girls that cannot orgasm from intercourse, how do you orgasm?

For the &#039;dominate/alpha&#039; subs/slaves how do you get yourself into that slave frame of mind to be obiediant and not resist?

For the dominate types, How do you deal with your slave/sub when she is not being very slave like? Or ways to make her feel owned?

Just some ponderings. take em or leave em. lol

Be well.

~~jane

&lt;em&gt;slave jane&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://slavejane07.wordpress.com/2008/04/17/a-meme-from-danae/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;A meme from danae&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hey girl I am still around. PC has been out of comission for a bit. One thing I love about your blog is that it is about your journy. Not just the wild sex. I am not a big fan of sex, so&#8230; Your blog adds to the realism of it all. Plus I love your thursday questions.</p>
<p>Suggestion:<br />
Maybe&#8230;For girls that cannot orgasm from intercourse, how do you orgasm?</p>
<p>For the &#8216;dominate/alpha&#8217; subs/slaves how do you get yourself into that slave frame of mind to be obiediant and not resist?</p>
<p>For the dominate types, How do you deal with your slave/sub when she is not being very slave like? Or ways to make her feel owned?</p>
<p>Just some ponderings. take em or leave em. lol</p>
<p>Be well.</p>
<p>~~jane</p>
<p><em>slave jane&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://slavejane07.wordpress.com/2008/04/17/a-meme-from-danae/' rel="nofollow">A meme from danae</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Kierae</title>
		<link>http://lunakm.me/2008/04/stats-and-a-rack/comment-page-1/#comment-6525</link>
		<dc:creator>Kierae</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Apr 2008 02:19:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was one of those readers with google reader that realized suddenly I hadn&#039;t had an update for awhile.  That is when I found out you changed the address.  Love the rope work - very pretty!

&lt;em&gt;Kierae&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://ciaran60.blogspot.com/2008/04/tmi-tuesday_15.html&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;TMI Tuesday&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was one of those readers with google reader that realized suddenly I hadn&#8217;t had an update for awhile.  That is when I found out you changed the address.  Love the rope work &#8211; very pretty!</p>
<p><em>Kierae&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://ciaran60.blogspot.com/2008/04/tmi-tuesday_15.html' rel="nofollow">TMI Tuesday</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: Mara Tudor</title>
		<link>http://lunakm.me/2008/04/stats-and-a-rack/comment-page-1/#comment-6524</link>
		<dc:creator>Mara Tudor</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Apr 2008 02:15:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Wow - your Master is quite the shibari... errr... Master, isn&#039;t he! I would love him to  come over and work his magic on me! With my Master&#039;s permission, of course!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wow &#8211; your Master is quite the shibari&#8230; errr&#8230; Master, isn&#8217;t he! I would love him to  come over and work his magic on me! With my Master&#8217;s permission, of course!</p>
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		<title>By: J</title>
		<link>http://lunakm.me/2008/04/stats-and-a-rack/comment-page-1/#comment-6523</link>
		<dc:creator>J</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Apr 2008 02:05:15 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>One possible reason your stats might drop...I read you using Google Reader. A couple days ago I realized that I hadn&#039;t gotten any of your posts for a couple weeks. I think your RSS feed much have changed, so I grabbed the new URL off of your website, and now I&#039;m back! Maybe others have had the same problem?

&lt;em&gt;J&#039;s last blog post..&lt;a href=&#039;http://submissiveinthecity.wordpress.com/2008/03/02/hes-up-to-something/&#039; rel=&quot;nofollow&quot;&gt;He’s Up to Something&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>One possible reason your stats might drop&#8230;I read you using Google Reader. A couple days ago I realized that I hadn&#8217;t gotten any of your posts for a couple weeks. I think your RSS feed much have changed, so I grabbed the new URL off of your website, and now I&#8217;m back! Maybe others have had the same problem?</p>
<p><em>J&#8217;s last blog post..<a href='http://submissiveinthecity.wordpress.com/2008/03/02/hes-up-to-something/' rel="nofollow">He’s Up to Something</a></em></p>
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		<title>By: jewel`</title>
		<link>http://lunakm.me/2008/04/stats-and-a-rack/comment-page-1/#comment-6522</link>
		<dc:creator>jewel`</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Apr 2008 01:33:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Hi Luna

i read pretty near every post you write. i rarely get to your site though as my Master has you friended on LiveJournal and i read you through His friends page. i do love the way you write though. 

jewel`</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Hi Luna</p>
<p>i read pretty near every post you write. i rarely get to your site though as my Master has you friended on LiveJournal and i read you through His friends page. i do love the way you write though. </p>
<p>jewel`</p>
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