I’m a stats whore. I love checking my stats almost 3 times a day (maybe more). I’ve watched my stats fall quite drastically since January. I’m not sure what has changed in my writing to cause it, but I know that I have a regular following and I have readers and commenters that I love. When I begin to see the stats fall I have 2 questions.
- Is what I’m writing about not interesting anymore? I know that I don’t post a lot of pictures of myself in compromising positions, I don’t write about the sex and play that Master and I have very often and I try to keep rants and extreme opinions from this blog. Why? Because that isn’t the purpose.
- Am I reaching everyone that I can? I know what I blog about is just a story of one submissive learning her way. I also know that I am not the only one with the specific challenges I face. Then again, is it that people are reading me through email or RSS feeds instead of coming here. That would show a decrease in the stats as well.
Who knows. I know that the focus of this blog is not to bring in readers, even if I love the attention. It’s to try and sort through my thoughts, experiences and struggles so that I can become the best submissive for my Master that I can possibly be.
Oh, I got tied up this weekend! Master wanted a picture for our new bondage website in the works. Here it is!
What do you think? I love it. Now this one was done with flash which is why I look like I’m glowing, but it gives the rope the detail that I liked to show off. Master is great and he knows what will compliment my body.
–luna
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Hi Luna
i read pretty near every post you write. i rarely get to your site though as my Master has you friended on LiveJournal and i read you through His friends page. i do love the way you write though.
jewel`
One possible reason your stats might drop…I read you using Google Reader. A couple days ago I realized that I hadn’t gotten any of your posts for a couple weeks. I think your RSS feed much have changed, so I grabbed the new URL off of your website, and now I’m back! Maybe others have had the same problem?
J’s last blog post..He’s Up to Something
Wow – your Master is quite the shibari… errr… Master, isn’t he! I would love him to come over and work his magic on me! With my Master’s permission, of course!
I was one of those readers with google reader that realized suddenly I hadn’t had an update for awhile. That is when I found out you changed the address. Love the rope work – very pretty!
Kierae’s last blog post..TMI Tuesday
Hey girl I am still around. PC has been out of comission for a bit. One thing I love about your blog is that it is about your journy. Not just the wild sex. I am not a big fan of sex, so… Your blog adds to the realism of it all. Plus I love your thursday questions.
Suggestion:
Maybe…For girls that cannot orgasm from intercourse, how do you orgasm?
For the ‘dominate/alpha’ subs/slaves how do you get yourself into that slave frame of mind to be obiediant and not resist?
For the dominate types, How do you deal with your slave/sub when she is not being very slave like? Or ways to make her feel owned?
Just some ponderings. take em or leave em. lol
Be well.
~~jane
slave jane’s last blog post..A meme from danae
Sorry I have been occupied I have read your blog but shame on me did not comment . As for the pictures or lack of them it is really your words I am after the pictures are just a very pleasant addition.
Aww, thank you everyone! I wasn’t whoring for comments, but they are quite nice! Yes, I noticed that when I updated WordPress to 2.5 the RSS URL changed and people had to get the new one. It is likely that people haven’t realized it yet and are missing my posts. Thanks to everyone who found me again
Slave Jane, thank you for the suggestions, I will definitely add them to my list of questions, sometimes it’s a challenge coming up with something interesting!
I’m a college girl, I’ve been focusing on my schoolwork lately. There’s also Jae, a complication in and of itself (on my blog)
luna,
What a beautiful photo! EXCELLENT!!
As far as the stats, i know the numbers can become quite seductive. i have been ordered not to look at them on more than one occasion as Master felt it reflected a focus on who might be reading rather than using the blog for the purpose he intended, which was organized communication with Him.
Also, He grew weary of hearing me complain about the number and length of the visits with no comments what so ever! So, i understand the thought process you might be going thru.
You have been a leader in the BDSM blogging world and were there to show the way to the many, many of us who are now out there sharing our journeys. i think that may have something to do with the numbers decreasing. So many are writing now that it is difficult to keep up with all the great writers available. i know i find my time limited, both by life and Master, for how many i am able to read regularly.
For what it’s worth, i love the new look and appreciate all you have done to pave the way for a freer approach to this thing we do!
Hugs!
~s/nik
s/nik,
Thank you so very much! I’ve never thought of myself as a leader in blogging, but I figure I’ve been around a long time compared to others. I’ve been around heh.
I’m trying not to focus on the numbers now, but the journey I have to talk about. I have a lot to think about, and as my life changes I have to record these changes.
I’m happy to know that others start blogging because of me! I just tell it like it is, I’m real and I hope that it helps.