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Do you participate in Fear Play with your partner? What is a reoccurring fear that is enhanced in your play?
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Sensory deprivation was my first bottoming experience, and I love it to this day. Hell, I do it to myself! Tye me up, and my eyes close. I won’t open them unless you order me to, and then you’d better watch me, or I’ll close them again. I’ve been told that when I’m blinded, I twitch delightfully in anticipation of … whatever. Breath Play is my lover’s newest obsession, and really what spurred me into getting outside education, because it IS so edgy. I think he likes it mre than I do, but I’ve got no argument with it.
My biggest, baddest, most pervasive fear is the fear of losing control. In my day to day life I’m almost to OCD levels of detail oriented freaky micromanagement. That is the fear the my partners play off of most of the time. Take away my control and take away my abilty to plan for every contingency. Make me dependent. So miserable. SO sexy.
I love giving control over to Master, and I can very much get myself into the appropriate state of fear (it helps that I’m blindfolded).
For example, a hard limit is that Master is having my nipples abused. Yet, Master threatens to abuse them all the time, and it terrifies me, even though I know he will not follow through. It’s all about headspace.
So, yes, I love fear play… it’s an important part of most of our scenes. Strange, isn’t it? Even though I’m not at all afraid of Master, He can bring me practically to the point of hyperventilating, I get so scared during a scene.
But that’s what headspace is all about.
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