Comments on: Let Me Show You http://lunakm.me/2007/06/let-me-show-you/ luna's personal adventures into BDSM, submission, service and love Thu, 09 Sep 2010 23:33:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: trazure http://lunakm.me/2007/06/let-me-show-you/comment-page-1/#comment-4973 trazure Wed, 06 Jun 2007 04:40:26 +0000 http://www.the-iron-gate.com/blog/2007/06/01/let-me-show-you/#comment-4973 Wow I really think I needed to read your journal tonight and get caught up with you. This post has helped me out as well and I want to thank you for having the courage to share it. Wow I really think I needed to read your journal tonight and get caught up with you. This post has helped me out as well and I want to thank you for having the courage to share it.

]]> By: katie http://lunakm.me/2007/06/let-me-show-you/comment-page-1/#comment-4959 katie Sat, 02 Jun 2007 17:25:52 +0000 http://www.the-iron-gate.com/blog/2007/06/01/let-me-show-you/#comment-4959 "I’m stuck on work and work situations for hours afterward instead of being able to leave it at the door" i used to struggle with this very thing. One thing that has helped me and may tie into your relaxation ritual is repeating a mantra on the drive home to myself. i started out with "i'm no longer office manager, i'm His slave" and have had many others over the years - sometimes Master has given me mantras based on behaviors/attitudes He's seen and wants changed... Good luck and focus on your own positive qualities.. it's about progress not perfection. “I’m stuck on work and work situations for hours afterward instead of being able to leave it at the door”

i used to struggle with this very thing. One thing that has helped me and may tie into your relaxation ritual is repeating a mantra on the drive home to myself. i started out with “i’m no longer office manager, i’m His slave” and have had many others over the years – sometimes Master has given me mantras based on behaviors/attitudes He’s seen and wants changed…

Good luck and focus on your own positive qualities.. it’s about progress not perfection.

]]> By: jenfrog http://lunakm.me/2007/06/let-me-show-you/comment-page-1/#comment-4958 jenfrog Sat, 02 Jun 2007 15:00:31 +0000 http://www.the-iron-gate.com/blog/2007/06/01/let-me-show-you/#comment-4958 The hard part about the why game is that you have to accept the answers you give. Selfishness is not an entirely bad quality - sometimes it is required, you know? It's learning when selfishness crosses the line that's important. "Caring for Master is caring for me." That right there was a huge realization, hun. When you can ACCEPT that YOU WANT the needs of someone else to override your own, then it can begin to happen. You know what i mean? i think you're taking good steps here, hun...and i'm glad you have your Master, and He's willing to work with you as you sort all this out. =) The hard part about the why game is that you have to accept the answers you give. Selfishness is not an entirely bad quality – sometimes it is required, you know? It’s learning when selfishness crosses the line that’s important.

“Caring for Master is caring for me.” That right there was a huge realization, hun. When you can ACCEPT that YOU WANT the needs of someone else to override your own, then it can begin to happen. You know what i mean?

i think you’re taking good steps here, hun…and i’m glad you have your Master, and He’s willing to work with you as you sort all this out. =)

]]> By: lee ann http://lunakm.me/2007/06/let-me-show-you/comment-page-1/#comment-4952 lee ann Sat, 02 Jun 2007 06:00:28 +0000 http://www.the-iron-gate.com/blog/2007/06/01/let-me-show-you/#comment-4952 maybe you should make a list of what's great about you. i know when i did it, it was really a rewarding experience. no one's 100% happy all the time, you just have to work through those times and try to be positive. *hugs* lee ann maybe you should make a list of what’s great about you. i know when i did it, it was really a rewarding experience.

no one’s 100% happy all the time, you just have to work through those times and try to be positive.

*hugs*
lee ann

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