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BDSM Myth: I’m a submissive, therefore I can brat and be the center of attention

By lunaKM on August 7, 2005

This is the other side of the previous post. In this case, no you are not. Granted there are times and places for all behavior, you should treat everyone with respect and not push yourself into the limelight more than any other. It’s not about how many times you are getting noticed but about how you are noticed.

Online: brattiness is used as a way to rile a response from a dominant. bratty subs misbehave so that they can get repremanded and “punished.” It’s not very acceptable even online, but is very common.

There is a time and place for brats. In public wouldn’t be my first choice. There are dominants that enjoy the fiesty bratty submissives and more power to them as long as the submissive doesn’t offend or get rude within groups.

Around a group where it’s not welcome… be bratty… I dare ya!

–luna

Enigma – Age of Loneliness

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