March Question Month
Here are the rules ask any question and I will blog my answer. You can ask anonymously. Just ask your question(s) here in comments or via email. I am not tracking ip and have it set so it will accept anonymous comments.

I would prefer personal questions, as I do have an Ask lunaKM column on Tumblr for the more general BDSM/submission or situation-specific questions.

Do you have a question for me?

T.O.M. asks: Ok so here is what I want to know who does the lovely graphics of you that have and do adorn this site?

The graphics aren’t actually of me, but they sure do look similar don’t they! The artist is Les Toil and you can find a gallery of his work at

Our sex life is awesome. I love it so much. When things connect and I’m horny then the sex is smokin’ hot. I love it. It’s animalistic, it makes the downstairs neighbors bang on the ceiling, it’s so very intense. After a brief discussion with Master the other day he said that he really likes waking me up in the middle of the night for sex and I love middle of the night sex but the waking up part when he’s not been snuggling with me is jarring and tends to turn him off. AND I always have to pee at 2am. He tends to wake me up at 2am to move to my mattress on the floor. I told him if he didn’t wait until then I wouldn’t have to pee really bad and ruin the pounce.

So, he agreed to do that and we’ve had middle of the night sex again. I’m so into sex like that, that he’s had to comment on how wet I am. It’s hot and slutty. I am his fuckmeat. Oh yeah. For those that haven’t heard the term, fuck meat is when I’m just his sex toy and he doesn’t care if I enjoy myself and often doesn’t want to hear me make any noise either. It’s so hard for me not to moan and groan so being told to say silent is so fucking hot. Yes, I’ve been in “sex space” today. What a wonderful feeling!

And the orgasms I get recently have been through the roof amazing.

Our sex life is awesome.


I’ve had some bad luck the past few days with food. I’m suffering from gluten contamination from several different meals. It’s hard to play sleuth when you feel icky but I have to figure out how I got sick.

So, I’m recovering for a while.



Valentine’s Day here was quiet. Master and I went out for our usual lunch date on the Friday to avoid the insane crowds on Saturday. It was sweet and nice. Saturday morning there was a knock on the door and roses were delivered! Lovely pinky-purple ones and so many that they stuffed the vase. Oh they are so pretty.  After lunch Master went over to froggy’s for the evening and I had my day all to myself. It was pretty nice. I watched some TV that Master doesn’t like and played video games.

Yesterday, we played. It had been awhile and I knew we’d not be pushing any limits. The three toys I selected were floggers, clothespins and the breast vice. I can’t remember exactly what happened, which is normal for me, but I do know that it hurt and felt good. I was in the vice with my breasts pressed into the pillow as I kneeled on the bed, he put my ring of pain (clips attached a metal ring) on my labia so it spread it wide open, exposing my clit. The magic wand sat there for a lot of the play. It hurt when it rubbed the clips and felt good when it hit my clit. While all that was going on he flogged my ass and thighs. My it was good.

I can’t wait to do it again.

Tonight I go host the sub forum. We’ll be talking about protocol and ritual. I’ve done a bit of research and study so that I can have the right information and hopefully be able to answer questions. Master and I have a bit of ritual and protocol in our relationship too so I’m experienced. We are often in medium protocol when at home and I have my coffee ritual to talk about.  I sure enjoy hanging out with other submissives.

I’m currently feeling a bit drop-y so hopefully I can get some snuggle time before the forum so that I can recover. I got permission for a candy bar and a pop so I think that’s helped me a bit. I just need the connection. Master will be home shortly from his visit at froggy’s and I’ll talk to him about my needs. I know he’ll be there for me. Just have to wait another 30 mins.


Restless Sleep

I slept horribly last night. First it took me a good hour to fall asleep when normally I’m quick to fall asleep (10 mins or less most nights). Then every little light change or sound woke me up and I’d have to fight to go back to sleep again. I tossed and turned, woke up with aches and pains. When Master and I switched places as we always do, I felt like I should just stay up; I was that awake. I didn’t of course, I laid on my mat and waited for sleep to take me – 40 mins later.

I can’t explain why I had such a hard time but even now I don’t feel the need to sleep even though I had a poor night of it. Sure that could change, but for me, it’s becoming an increasing issue of restless sleep or unsatisfying sleep. I might have to bring it up with the Dr. on Tuesday.

In Subguide news, I’m considering a podcast of some sort. I think, perhaps I might do the Weekend Reflections as a podcast to start with as that might make it more interesting to readers and attract a new audience. I have other ideas too, but since my follow-through on new things is so slow I think I’ll stick with one thing at a time. So I’m learning about podcasting and what’s required to make it interesting, how long my show might end up being, where to host it and so much more. I’ll have to make intro and outtros eventually which means finding royalty-free music that I like.

I’m also planning on increasing the number of video posts I do to 2 a month. This has taken a lot of planning and the topics might be a little unknown yet but we’ll see. The videos I am producing are getting decent positive reviews and my followers on Youtube are growing so it might be a good next step to increase the amount of content.

Master and I had a three hole day yesterday. For those of you who haven’t followed me long or are new that means he got to use and cum in my mouth, vagina and ass. It had been a good 4 months since the last day. About time I say! It was hot, so hot.

We have 6-8 inches of snow predicted for tonight, which means we are not going anywhere! Going to snuggle in and play some computer games or watch a movie. And no, I probably won’t watch the Superbowl. I’m not a sports fan at all.


I know that a few months ago I had shared that my kitties were visiting the vet so I wanted to give you guys and update on their health. Since I’m a crazy cat lady and adore my babies I’m sure you all want to know how they are! :P



Max is now 13. His health is deteriorating slowly. He had early stage Kidney Disease and has been eating special food to help him out. It’s $80 a month to feed him now but worth it if he’s happy. He also is on a Potassium supplement to keep him from vomiting from the low Potassium levels he has. The bare skin on his belly is now mostly gone and he’s stopped over-grooming the area. The vet thought that it was likely related to moving and the agitation with that so we had a pheromone diffuser for 60 days.

Since his oral surgery he’s been back to his old self. I thought he had withdrawn and become cranky because he’s old but turns out I think, and the vet thinks, it was because he was in pain. Longer term followers will remember that he had 2 teeth completely deteriorated and needed removing. He’s lost weight and that has me concerned but the vet doesn’t seem worried yet. He used to be my fat cat, but now he’s skinny. Could be anything causing it but as long as he’s still in healthy limits the vet isn’t going to do anything about it.

So he’ll snuggle and is very talkative when he wants attention. He’ll always be momma’s baby.


Loki is fat. I’m ashamed that I let him gain so much weight since we adopted him and restricting his diet hasn’t made much change but I remain hopeful. He’s a very healthy kitty and his visit was uneventful. He’s around 9 years old at last guess. He’s so playful and loves his toys. He’ll carry them around with him where ever he’s resting and play with them there. He hates being left alone and even more when we leave the house. He cries. Then when we come back he acts like we’ve been gone forever! He’s definitely a dog-cat and that makes me so happy. I can’t imagine him being in a home where everyone works all day.



The fact that I’ve been away for awhile has nothing to do with the inactivity of my life. No, not at all. Hah.

I always thought that the cost of food at our house was on the high side, but after looking at the USDA Food Plans it appears we are more of a moderate range. We spend about $150 a week on food for the 2 of us. Apparently we could be spending a lot more. But hell, I’d like to be spending under $125 a week so I think I’ll work on that. It shouldn’t be too hard to get there, I hope. Today, as is every Wednesday, is grocery day. I spent right at $150.

I’ll have to really figure out how to cut down the food budget without decreasing the quality of our food. Master likes the good stuff and my special diet foods are hard to get cheap. Maybe some new recipes will be in order. I’ve revived my price book so I can get the better deals and know when I have the better deals.

Next week I have an appointment with a new doctor. I went with an internal medicine MD instead of a family doctor. We’ll see if I feel more respected by the doctor and that they will have the right answers for my issues. It’s time for my thyroid test to make sure it’s behaving. I hate finding new doctors. I’m taking naps every single day in order to function after 4pm and that’s getting annoying! I’m also getting a skin tab removed hopefully. It’s right at my bra strap level on my back so it gets pinched often.  Yeah, I’m sure you all wanted to know that!

Went to a munch yesterday. I’m really hoping that I can make some friends here in the community so that I can stop feeling so isolated. Mingling didn’t really happen till like 30 mins before everyone left though to it was hard to gauge if I made any new acquaintances. One person did contact me for a friend request on FetLife today though so that’s at least one more person I can get to know.

I finished reading the Game of Thrones series. Now I’m just like the rest of the fans that can’t wait for him to publish another book and hopefully he does it before he dies.


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