Answering a Few Questions

I’m not planning on being around here long, my wrists are inflamed and painful today and Master and I are going out on a date tonight, but I wanted to make sure you all knew I got your questions and plan to answer as many as I can.

Do I have any hobbies?

I love to knit, cross stitch and crochet. I’m also good at other crafts and embroidery. I knit whenever I can. I’m working on a baby blanket for my best friend who just had a baby girl. I want to be done with it for Christmas.

I play Minecraft a lot. Like a lot a lot. Master and I have a personal modded Minecraft server that we play on. I also follow a lot of YouTube broadcasters for Minecraft. I think I’m a bit addicted.

Experimenting with makeup is another thing I enjoy. I like to try new makeup tutorials, especially eye makeup tutorials.

Do I still have that giant list of Journal Prompts?

Yes, you can find them at I add new ones about every 2 weeks. I use them for inspiration on occasion but never for here – always for Subguide.

How long has KnyghtMare been with froggyKM?

They’ve been together for almost 2 years. I think.

That’s it for now, more later!


I Can’t Believe the End is Near

It’s so hard to believe that it’s almost the end of the year. The holidays will rush by, there’s no doubt about that. So many changes have happened this year, some good, some bad.

As many of you are aware moving to this new apartment was so that Master could be closer to froggyKM. It’s been a hard adjustment and apparently it’s not fully shifted to what he wants.  He’s not visiting her as often as he’d like and she has told him that she doesn’t feel welcome here.

Well, I never said she couldn’t visit so I don’t know where that is coming from. My only limitation is that there’s no need to stay overnight and play can’t happen here. I don’t know how to make her feel more welcome here so I think that’s just something she needs to work on.

They have had a bit of a stressful relationship lately from what I can see. A few times Master has informed me he is pissed and I just give him space. Hopefully they can work things out soon as I prefer he’s friendly and happy around home. I guess that’s just a part of being with a poly person.

I know that I don’t have a lot to say and that could be because I don’t know what you want me to share with you, so if you are reading this and wondering about my submission, our past or anything else related to me and KnyghtMare I’d be willing to share it with ya!


Lost Friends

Last week my best friend from college had her first baby. On Friday I got to visit with her and see her new adorable girl. It was a beautiful time and I’m thrilled that she’s got a little family to love and take care of.

But I cried too. It’s been over 18 months since we did anything together and it hurt that I let that much time go by without staying in touch. I promised her that I wouldn’t let time go by like that again and asked if she’d like to start up being pen pals as well as calling each other more often. There are things you can tell a best friend that you can’t tell anyone else, ya know? I think I need a bit of that.

I hope I can keep her friendship going and enjoy watching her grow as a new mom.



Getting Older

Master and I went and picked up my birthday ring from the jeweler today. It’s lovely and I can see myself wearing it all the time, which was my hope with the choice I made. It’s a flat ring without a raised gem in the middle which tends to spin around and get caught on things. If you want to see a picture I have a small one on a previous post.

My birthday is Friday, I’ll be old. Not too old but old enough. I’ve planned a pizza and ice cream party. I bought a GF cake from a local bakery to have since I refuse to bake my own cake for my birthday. I’m hoping to have a relaxing day watching my new ring sparkle in the light and just spoiling myself with a spa day. I’ve got nails to polish, brows to pluck and new makeup to play with.

Master just let me buy Pentatonix’s new Christmas album! I’m going to have to listen to it discreetly until December. He has a rule that no Christmas music can be played in his presence until then. I’m excited! I love them.  I’m such a fangirl.

I’ve never done well with getting older and the closer I get to 40 it’s not an easy progression. I have a hesitation of not reaching my goals in life or that something health wise will make my life harder. Sometimes I think about getting old and not having anyone to take care of us. Not that I want children at all.

On to other things, my older cat, Maximus had some dental surgery on Tuesday. I was a worried mommy that’s for sure since he’s never been under anesthesia.  He had 2 teeth removed. The Dr said he had to have been in pain for months with the condition the teeth were. :(

He also had some more tests done and he’s been diagnosed with early stage kidney disease. Poor guy has to have special food, potassium supplements and I have to watch out for him getting worse. He has to be checked every 6 months now to be proactive in his treatment. I might have to do subcutaneous fluids at some point as his disease progresses. I hate that’s the way he’s destined to die. His kidneys will just fail. I can only hope that he has years of life left in him before that happens. He’s my baby and I’ll do whatever I can to keep him happy.

I mean I guess a chronic condition is different than Zeus’ (RIP) acute liver failure. I had mere days. He collapsed and that was it. With Max I can care for him longer and watch for him to tell me he’s ready to go.

It’s hard and I hate ending on a sad note, but I’m gonna go for today.

More later,


Back to Back

From better to worse when I got better from the flu I was okay for a couple days then a cold settled in. I don’t think they were related illnesses, but Master caught my cold so we were both laid up for a few days.

Now, though, we are much better and getting back to our regular routine. I’m hoping that we’ll get to do that play very soon.  Sex has been lacking as well so I know that very soon we’ll be getting sexy again.

It’s just the way some weeks go.

Maximus went to the vet today. I’ve been concerned with some recent excessive grooming and vomiting. Turns out he’s stressed out and we’ll have to do a pheromone diffuser. Also, the vet found 2 broken teeth that will need to be extracted soon and his kidney function isn’t doing well from his blood work. He needs a urine test to be sure of what’s going on – so he’ll be going back to the vet within the week for that part and in the next 2 weeks for oral surgery.

With that and the other immediate expenses we have, we’ll be tightening our belt a bit more. I’ve unsubscribed from a few things, going to really watch the food budget and have no extra money drains. Entertainment will have to be free for the next few months. Of course that means Christmas gifts are going to be…. practically nothing.

Which is really funny because we went to the jeweler the other day and purchased my birthday present on the store credit. I got a lovely new ring coming!

Well I’m off to do some knitting,